qualities of human nature, including negative, determine its relationship to the outside world, and this process is reversible.Surrounding people will copy exactly the attitude towards them of any person, of course, the extent of their education, while often without even realizing it.This phenomenon could not be better characterize the quote, "each according to his work", although there are rare lucky ones who manage to balance on the verge of humor and rudeness.However, society always tends to stick to each person a specific label such as a humorist, "the soul of the company," an egotist, a parasite, a prude, egocentric, cynical.
value last word literally means: a person with an impudent, insolent, rude and scornful attitude to the conventional behavior and conscientious attitude of contempt for the moral and behavioral standards.However, cynics call themselves a lot of people, and it did not prevent them from finding a common language with others.Let's try to understand this situation.
Some believe that a cynic - a precocious teenager, but this position is far from correct.Of course, the roots of cynicism as a state of mind, is laid during adolescence, but for a young man or woman turned into cynics should happen some event that will forever change the character.In fact, youth boorish and rude is a kind of defensive reaction of a teenager and later often completely obsolete.
Others believe that a cynic - a disillusioned romantic, and this opinion is also controversial.Really romantic could easily turn into a cynic, but again, this requires a strong emotional shock.But everyone should remember that not always the cynic - a former romantic, maybe this is the usual ham.
Another option - "a cynic - a realist" - not even worth discussing.If a person perceives reality it is so, then it might be worth to apply to a good psychologist.Therefore replace the realism of cynicism can only be in the context of some jokes, nothing more.
most popular position: a cynic - a person with the right attitude towards life, in everyday life is the quality of the character called "healthy cynicism."Although this opinion has the right to life, simply because it is rumored, though it's a little different.Man with "healthy cynicism" sarcastic, satirical and straightforward, but it is kept within certain limits.Agree, it is one thing - to tell a colleague, which reported about marriage: "On how many men you plan to stay?";and more - throw after seniors: "Go to the cemetery, even though the bus is free."
can endlessly argue about the cynicism and the people who have this quality of character - still everyone remains at the opinion.Personally, in my opinion, there are cynical people that should be avoided to avoid problem situations, and there are people vulnerable and traumatized survivors who just wear the mask of a cynic.The latter category should be treated with understanding - they are like teenagers, eager to protect themselves from the aggression of the external world.
