Psychologist:
1. Listen to your child every day and talk to her.Parents are often the last to know that their child has been involved in the abuse.Spend a few minutes every day to simple questions about how and with whom he spends time at school and in the neighborhood, she makes to change or what happens on the way to and from school.When talking with your child observe his condition and desire to continue the conversation.
2. Most often visited the child at school.Most bullying happens when adults are not around.Schools do not have the resources and need the help of parents.
3. Be a good example of kindness and leadership.Your children will learn a lot about relationships by watching you.When you are angry with the waiter, the seller, for drivers on the road, or even on your child, you are perfectly simulate something with which you want to fight.Every time you talk to another person insulting tone, you teach the child to mockery.
4. Most children do not tell anyone (especially adults) that they are being bullied or bullying them.Therefore it is important for parents and teachers to learn to recognize signs of potential victims, such as frequent loss of personal belongings, complaints of headaches or stomachaches, avoiding school activities.If you suspect that a child is exposed to mockery, talk to a teacher or find a way to evaluate its interaction with peers to verify your suspicions.Discuss the situation with your child directly.
5. Develop a healthy habit to combat hooliganism.Help your child to focus on how its actions can hurt others (eg, "How would you feel in this situation?").Such a strategy can enhance empathy for others.It is important to teach your children to do good, empathy, fair play.This is a guarantee for good relations with their peers.
6. Create family tolerance for bullying.Your children need to hear from you that it is not normal and is not permissible for them - to intimidate or stand by and just watch.Make sure your children know that if they are abused physically or verbally (in the school, on the street, in your neighborhood, or on the Internet), it is important to tell you, and that you will help them.Help your children to find other ways to establish their status and leadership in school.
7. Teach your child how to behave as a witness.Children who witness bullying feel powerless and seldom intervene.However, children can have a powerful positive effect on the situation.They can also help each other by providing support for victims, ignoring the bully.
8. Teach your child to resist kiberzalyakuvannyu.Children often do not understand that kiberzalyakuvannya includes sending rude, vulgar, or threatening messages or images;Publication valuable, confidential information about another person that this person looked bad;the deliberate exclusion of someone from an online group.These actions are just as dangerous as physical violence, and should not be tolerated.We know from research that the more time young people spend online, the more likely they are victims - set a time limit of networking.
9. Bullying should not be a part of childhood.Some adults do not act when they observe or hear about bullying because they think that bullying - these are typical moments of childhood that must be experienced and they "strengthen" rebenka.Vazhno to all adults to understand that bullying should not be a normal part of childhood.All forms of bullying are harmful for the offender to the victim and witnesses, and it will affect the adult life (can develop depression, anxiety, substance abuse, family violence and criminal behavior).
To effectively address the cruelty necessary efforts and cooperation of school, family and society.Bullying is a huge problem and we can solve it, if we all work together.
