So, the world assumed that the normal family - it's sure to unmarried parents who have children.Families in which one parent, will automatically fall into the category of "defective", "incomplete" or even families "dysfunctional."I immediately put forward the opposite opinion.
number of family members does not always mean its quality.Strong, happy, happy family - it's a small team where everyone comfortable.And the presence of the parents of both sexes is not an indicator of the quality of relations within it.
course, one dad or mom, raising a child on their own, it is extremely difficult to give children a versatile education.But it is quite affordable!Many moms who brought wonderful, courageous, self-sacrificing sons.And the Pope there are those who helped their daughters to grow good and gentle, beautiful hostesses and caring mothers.Another question, what is it worth it ... But we are talking now not about it.
Many put forward the thesis that the normal, "real" family - a family with children.Again controversial judgment.
For many parents, having children is really necessary in order to feel like a full-fledged family.But there are those who absolutely do not want children, they have for each other deep sense, their lives are filled with creativity, work, self-improvement.Even in old age, the two continue to love each other, support, empathy.
Unless someone has the right to condemn them for it?Especially since not all families with children, can boast of understanding and calm friendliness in their small team.
There is another "myth" of family happiness, which I would like to destroy.Most parents put forward a postulate that happy family - it's just the one where the kids are absolutely healthy.
course, to look at the suffering of a loved one - test is not for the weak souls.However, these families to enroll in the category of "accidents", "dysfunctional" - a huge mistake.I think more important than the presence of a family member of a physical disability, and the ratio of the rest to that person as an individual.
example confirming my argument that can be a happy family in which there are people with disabilities, as well as the fact that the so-called "incomplete" family has a right to be happy and even perfect, will the story of the mother andson.
boy was only 8 years old when his mother was paralyzed.She stopped to walk, talk, eat independently and dress.Dad had already safely somewhere got, completely forgetting about his ex-wife and son.
Can his departure from the family called misfortune?Rather, the misfortune was that his departure took place too late ... So from the "full" family with two parents mother and son moved into the category of "single parent families", "dysfunctional."However, they interpreted differently: but now they have settled happiness and joy, peace and love!
But the hardships experienced married life, such as: beatings, sleepless nights, hard work for a penny that went on sing-alcoholic husband - reminded of themselves.Horror eclipsed light.My mother became ill.The boy wanted to take to the shelter, separate him from the only family man.
neighbor intervened.She issued on child custody.And the kid cares about the mummy shouldered.At 9 years old boy he washes and feeds the mother from a spoon, on hand makes it for a walk, sits in a wheelchair, doing massage, talking and did not cease to confess his love to her and kiss her hand.
family - a kingdom ruled by Love!Mom learned to stand, said the first sentence after the terrible day that divided life into "before" and "after."These were the words: "I ... love ... you ...ยป
One reporter learned about them, I prepared a report.Television contributed to the fact that the boy - a real hero, a great man, a courageous and indomitable personality with a great loving heart, with great fortitude - learned the whole country.Today, they pay attention to influential people, my mother is preparing for the operation, which, according to the doctors, it certainly helps, because progress is being made.
That is - a true family, proper family, a real family.And no matter how much her children, all involved in the education of your parents siblings, whether there is a prosperity that all healthy - this is the family, not the notorious "cell", registered on paper.
The final myth about what the family should be considered young.Today introduced the age criteria for benefits in obtaining housing "for young families."Embark on a turn is possible only to reach one of the spouses 36 years.I think that is wrong.
young family - a family that was formed no earlier than 8 years ago, without regard to the age of spouses.Why 8 and not 5 or 6?
Psychologists and sociologists argue that the couples at the turn 7 years often break.Therefore, in this period needs special support, both material and psychological.
All expressed by me - IMHO.But it has the right to exist, reading and discussion.
