New Year - a holiday favorite general, both children and adults.In the New Year's Eve we forget all differences, forgive insults and confrontation, sharing their joys and hopes with different people.Here are just a favorite because does not leave, it is a new year, we rarely find a compromise in our relations.Ability to celebrate the New Year together, but still having fun - this is your test of strength, depends on your long shared happiness.The circle of friends is easy to relax and have a good time, but the New Year - a family holiday.
Learn to tolerate
Most couples afraid to be alone in a holiday.They always find a reason to quarrel, and above all their arguments are based on the details.The man did not have time to buy something or buy, not what was needed.But is it so much trouble?
Men do not particularly like to shop, and even stand in the pre-lines, and thus he has enough problems at work, which must also be resolved before the end of the year.Yes, he is confused and instead bought a green peas sweet corn, so what?Olivier did together, salad with crab sticks, or even some where you can add the corn.It is better to show imagination and favorite new dish to please than to roll up the scandal.
And if you're such a principle, would have been for a man to the list of required products and the question would be resolved.Of course your attacks, man also finds an answer.For example, why did she not bought, I could call and remind.As a result of pre-Christmas mood spoiled both, no one, no one wants to hear and understand.
Why is this happening?Rather, the problem is not that you have divergent views, you somehow get along together?And after all this fuss and nervousness before the New Year is January 1 you wake up in the same bed, or in the same room.And then with retractable kitchen and wash the dishes after the holiday.Perhaps it's just a script written not by you, but is firmly entrenched in your mind and become a habit.And you just need to change the script or write your own.Just love a man all his small failures and mistakes, forgive yourself, and fatigue failures, to understand exactly what both of you are the best couple in the world, because someone just dreaming about it and celebrate the New Year alone.
And if so drawn to swear, do it with humor, fun, and then say thank you to your loved one for their help and for the fact that he is always by your side in this New Year, too.
Only we
Subject joint meeting of the New Year is not only concerned about those who have not yet met their soul mate or just started to build a relationship.At the initial stage love people feel happiness every day and sometimes do not notice the upcoming holidays.But after three or more years of living together, you begin to realize that to maintain relationships need to invent and loved one holiday.
not enough just to prepare a Christmas dinner and exchange gifts, to see blue light.The main pitfall for couples in love, dreaming together to celebrate the New Year - is deluded hopes and expectations.
Lovers too arrogant and naive to believe that their home will bypass boredom.As a result, they are not ready when they come home routine and boredom.And if not pre-plan how to spend their free time together, then this is the most free time will turn against you, and you prefer to soul-searching in himself and in his favorite, searching for weaknesses and problems.A
scenarios and various contests like to spend New Year's holidays, you will find on the internet is not difficult.But in any case you should be prepared for the fact that in this New Year's Eve there will be nothing supernatural.Yes, the New Year as Christmas - magical holiday, and next to you beloved.
Yet miracles in life, we do ourselves.And do not expect the keys of the beloved "Mercedes", you are an intelligent woman, and guess what gift to get your favorite perfume.You must tune in, it does not matter what you give your man, most importantly, that in the new year, he is with you and then you might find and your golden key from your family happiness.
Double pleasure
Finally, there are cases where any joint celebration ends in failure and a complete lack of understanding.At first all goes well, both agree only to celebrate together, and everyone wants something to do and come up with.But in the end, or each chose their way, or to communicate in different languages, so sooner or later someone is dissatisfied with a loud "slams the door."
But out there in this situation.The couple, who are made up of different psychological typecasting, in fact complement each other perfectly, but in an ambiguous situation - a holiday or celebration - one person falls under the heavy pressure of the second half.
For example, a man - an active, energetic and without publicity he can not live as without air, and it was a great celebration in his opportunity.And all your entreaties, cries, tears will not help and may even spoil everything.It is necessary to find a compromise that both requirements are met.
If you can not provide the man attention and admiration of the crowd of spectators, then it is better give up the idea of celebrating the New Year together.You can find an option that would satisfy both - go on a tour and meet the New Year celebration in a large and noisy group of tourists unfamiliar.Everyone will be happy.A man will get his audience, and you have it, as besides you, he will not be anyone here to know.After all, the holiday must be for two, rather than one, the one who would be more convincing and selfish another.
Articles Source: man-woman.com.ua
