TERENTIY TRAVNIK "MONTH OF SILENCE»
Day One.
Start your way to your silence.Help you in the way of your focus and concentration.Love your privacy.But any privacy detrimental, if you are there alone.This is not the solitude and loneliness.With all my heart, with all your mind, with all your senses craving for a meeting with himself.Look for an internal, examine yourself, watch yourself, to inquire to yourself, think of yourself and try to understand a lot in itself.When it will turn out at you, you give yourself to the will of the One who is over all.To be in solitude with God - a great happiness for you.
second day.
All the pain that comes to each of us, is aimed at the treatment of our mental illnesses.Sometimes grief can be very severe, such as a serious illness, the death of a loved one, the loss of collected and created by you and the destruction plans, arrayed years.
If you can not fix something, it's time your sadness.This is one of the most important exams in our lives that we sometimes have to take.This exam on our internal growth, our awareness and expression and identification of a spiritual strength and patience.In this difficult time, life reveals its contrasts and faces that we see in the normal state.Much depends on us.Kohl will be grumbling and discontent - so do not pass missed, did not pass, and be patient and wait for the tears, because the soul will rejoice and be comforted.
The sadness comes the ability to comprehend the truth of our lives.
strong & gt; The third day.
says a lot about the ability to be silent, but what kind of skill is what the hang of it a daunting experience?
We often meet people silent, but what is hidden in their taciturnity and maloslovii?Unfortunately, very often a similar stand two states, and each of them - is a sign of undeveloped and spiritual poverty.
first state - the lack of internal experience, emptiness, lack of development.
second - inability to express his fortune in word, in conversation.Such people tend to conduct their own internal discussions.
We wish and order and other development experience of the conversation, not silent.
This silence comes from the experience of many conversations, dialogues and begins when the power of understanding the heart overrides any previously said a word.Indeed - from the "abundance of the heart the mouth of the verb."
verbosity, soothe the heart, creates a spiritual feeling and brings us look heart.It always will be felt in people.
fourth day.
Every time doing any business, Be aware: what you do, for whom and for whom?Understanding his action, intention and expression is very important for each of us.
Unfortunately, most people experience in the labor occurs after they have already made.Then he pondered the consequences, mistakes and disappointments come.But this is wrong.
First of all, try to understand as much as you need.
interesting that if you really think about it, it is likely that you refuse or somehow modified his activities.And only when it is clear that it is impossible not to do so, you start to do everything deliberately and consistently.Remember that any deal is done for God requires honesty and dedication.Do everything that depends on you and often inquire of his conscience give estimates made, and it will be right.
strong & gt; The fifth day.
Very often we find ourselves in terms of meetings and conversations.Conversations are deep, frank, intense, filled with heartfelt feelings, experience, passion and tenderness.This is a very good conversation, develop our soul, our mind, our emotions.They can be seen, they do not leave irritability, apathy and fatigue.There just have to know when to stop: a measure of the conversation and time for conversation.
overload is never useful.It was always obvious to all.But there are empty, temporary, unintelligible conversation.They are, as a rule, no subject or theme of "walking" and constantly lost.At this time, you start to feel tired, empty, glancing at his watch.Such talk is dangerous, it must be time to interrupt and devote as much time as she deserves.You can not go in favor of the whims of the interlocutor, vysizhivaya with him, because it's not just you, but it is very harmful.
sixth day.
amazing state of mind - it's gentleness.It is a rare gift nezloblivosti and ability to see in all of God's love fishing and participation.
Meekness - is an innate gift, but sometimes it can be developed by us under constant observation of the other, the creation of charity, good works and speeches.If we compel ourselves to do good, the reward we get the wonderful gift of spiritual meekness.
strong & gt; The seventh day.
If we observe for a while, when we ask for forgiveness, apologize and repent of their deeds before anyone will notice, our soul is filled with peace, and before it can be, and tears shed, cleanse our nature, affected by anymisdemeanor.Brought from the soul the word of remorse - is one of the experiences of the present, deep prayer, prayer from the depths of our true nature.Learn and Learn to ask for forgiveness.
eighth day.
Well praise your friends and benefactors, they really deserve it and not too difficult to find praise for them, because everything is in harmony with your views and your heart.
But the more difficult experience - is to understand and see, accept and forgive those who are unkind to you is, pernicious, insulting and cruel.After all, the reason for this attitude lies in the lack of development, inflexibility, hardness you create relationships.This will be a real school of mutual spiritual mastery.Only those who pass the school and passing exams on fine, fragrant flowers gets a spiritual and heavenly joys.
aware that any of your persecutor, and injurious - it is your teacher, and this is your lesson.If you can understand it, to justify, to forgive and take heart and not the mind (the difference is very important), you can say that you pass a challenging exam in the heavenly school.
ninth day.
Everyone has the right to make a mistake: both you and your environment.Know it is always learning and indulgence, it is our common share, it is the fate of the good, useful and necessary.Learn to be at his mercy sympathetic and sincere, not imperious and arrogant.Try with a kind smile coming from the heart, to forgive the mistakes of their loved ones, rather than formally and emotionally cold.Make it clear to them that you love them.This wisdom.
tenth day.
When you have little money, divide them into two parts, and one of them gave the suffering and the needy.
And that is a feat of alms.
skill necessary for you to share your heart produces good deeds.Only with this and start the correctness of your kindness.
Welcome - not a product of your prosperity, well - it's spiritual self-discovery mechanism.Only from poverty giving, giving up examination for good deeds.
Day Eleven.
How often we seek to protect themselves from emotional discomfort that please others in his weaknesses.Drinker - pour, smoking - buy tobacco wishing noise, slapstick and fun - give their immodest joke.It's simple - go for the sake of someone's whims and passions.But this can not be done, because this behavior is destroying us and very bad for us.It is impossible to please others in his sin.Do not encourage him, but do not condemn, and if there are forces, try to give him something in return, the best kind and helpful.Your heart will tell you what it is.
strong & gt; The twelfth day.
We know how good talk with the man who enriches your knowledge and has to itself, adjusting to the good mood.But there is in each one of us the trouble, and the trouble - our inability to listen, and thus hearing.
course, conversation skills - one of the greatest achievements in your development and one of the faces of mastering this skill is the ability to listen.Listen
need as much time as you allow your inner rhythm and concentration.
Always give opportunity to your interlocutor finish the thought, but it is, in turn, holds the speaker with you the responsibility for the time that it takes you to express their thoughts.
Day thirteen.
The more one does different things, the more it calls attention, and hence a lot of criticism in the party.Sometimes, we strongly criticize, insult and slander spread about us.It's hard to experience it, but you can, if you know that every bad words to us - this is a lesson to our patience, and gentleness.All we say bad, we must endure with humility and heart predisposition to offenders - this is the way to go.
fourteenth day.
Anyone who wants to grasp the moments of happiness, should try to connect with his birth and be aware of their impending demise.Thinking about death, knowing about it and accepting it, we will be able to direct our lives in the right direction and good.A lot of bustle will leave, will be identified
important and meaningful to us.Hasten to do good, to build yourself, explore.Fill every moment of his life edifying, good thinking and actions.Think about death.Life - is preparing for it daily.
fifteenth day.
Each of us is called to your path.Each path there are those tasks that must be performed.Sometimes it is very difficult to find the correct their deeds, the fulfillment of which will be very helpful to you.But there is a very correct decision, which all of us can be a good clue.Every day we come to requests from anyone or accumulate their business to others.It will be very proper to perform all these duties and debts, thinking only about the consistency of their performance, rather than the feasibility of implementation.This Your self-disclosure.
sixteenth day.
If you are someone hurt, upset, the best remedy for this is your kind attention to the location of a wronged you.Great joy awaits you, if in his heart will find the warmth of its offenders.If you are good to those who to you is good - it is natural, but if you would find strength in his heart to give warmth of their hearts offenders yours, you will be able to open up in the joy of their self-development, and this is the exam for a transition to a different class of mental skills.
seventeenth day.
is especially important to help unfamiliar and random people.This is charity.But this should be done without forgetting about their loved ones and friends.When your participation is necessary at least for them, give alms to everyone whom the Lord sends you.It is very important to be able to see that everything is done for your loved ones may be at the moment it is enough for them, try to feel it.A need to know this in order to not look for any excuses himself in his refusal to creation of random good deeds.Give alms, do not indulge in extravagance.
eighteenth day.
Every day we come to different tasks.There is not a day that would not bring us a new formula for their decisions.Sometimes we slow down your search, and this is the result of unresolved some very important moment in our past ways.So begins "spiritual - energy blockage."It must necessarily be dismantled and the sooner the better.It can not be run.
It is true that the existence of the order lives, but through the work of the mess we have the experience and only when we eliminate this confusion.Through this movement begins to himself.To make it easier for us in this promotion, we need to learn how to name and define words, what is happening to us at the moment, in other words, right to formulate their state.
nineteenth day.
happens that, in spite of many of our diligence, we can not start to move in its development.However, any effort - is a step in our development.
And yet there is the problem of interaction with the surrounding space.Look around and you will see that in your environment somewhere present situation wrongs seen someone you do not just keep for a long time and this sadness confidence.What makes you move, and it is your grief.
Sometimes such situations accumulates very, very much.
Forgiveness - a profound inner act and it must be prepared to strive and to achieve, and it is sure to take place, and this will start reviving your movement.
twentieth day.
How difficult for us to understand what has brought us to return the favor: a new discovery and purchase something or loss and frustration, which sometimes hid the whole range of our levels of self-disclosure.Most will choose the former.But let me say that it is in sorrow done our hard work over itself and there is our spiritual growth.
The joy he is assigned to us.Therefore, the time of sorrows - this time the beneficial work on oneself.It is a stage of transition in the number of our soul, our spiritual quality.
In all of this can be seen the good Divine Providence for us.Therefore, and thanks to God for everything to be: and for good and for bad.
twenty-first day.
There are three pillars in our difficult road to himself, the way to God, for the LORD dwelleth in us.Here are three tips that we can swim in the ocean of passions, sorrows and tribulations.The first - is the fear of the Lord as to the landlord or our Parent, but reverential fear.Second - it is necessary to trust the Lord in all and rely on his good fishing in your affairs.And finally, perhaps most importantly - it is necessary to love God, to learn to love Him more than ourselves and desire to be with Him in all things.
the twenty-second day.
we are all connected, being essential parts in the complex mechanism of reality.If we break, then we break or being rebuilt around us.All of this is mutual.We need to learn how to be helpful to others, can not be separate and not to benefit others.And the benefits can be different: in both word and deed, and look, and the presence and silence and patience.We must feel what kind of line is useful to keep and develop the other and try to run it day to day.
day of the twenty-third.
When we are wrong, and this happens quite often, one has only to look at himself in his deeds toward others, we have accumulated an internal alarm that gradually begins to ravage us.Perseverance in his wrongness has very serious consequences for our situation, and for us, and for our environment.
selected from the "pit of perseverance" in his wrongness possible for years, but life is short, and not just for this is given to us.So carry a cure for this - namely, the ability to tell the time to apologize and explain to all those who have been misled and hurt.
day of the twenty-fourth.
We are all living habits.Well, if this is the right habit.But any, even the right habits must be understood, recognized and understood in the very depths of your heart, in your nature, then it will not be a habit, and the continuation of our inner nature.But, I will say to our sorrow, very often this happens and our negative actions.They also firmly settled in us and sometimes for life.
Therefore, constant monitoring them, self-cleaning and self-study - this is our feasible and everyday tasks.The main thing - to be able to grasp all that is negative in us, to understand it, to prosecute him and gave him no rest, not to justify, but also learn to accept myself with him, not making himself prematurely better in their own eyes, praising early victories.We must remember that this is the most negative, at this time of struggle, has been living in our nature, and it is a very deep state of us.Know that decision - not the consent, and always remember that.It is necessary to take to calm down and then slowly, step by step, but relentlessly combat this habit, while the fight against it has itself will not be a new experience accumulated by us in our habit.The ability to purify themselves - this is a very good skill in our lives.
twenty-fifth day.
very good sign for us - it's amazing ability not to remember evil, turned in our direction, and the ability to forgive him once the offenders.Rancor - a serious illness of the soul, and very dangerous.It looks like a grim, dull glass, dressed for our spiritual eyes.A moment ... and now the whole world is visible in bad colors.We must learn to throw away the evil from the heart at once, rather than letting it destroy us, penetrating deeper.Those who have been given not to remember evil and grievances, many with their heart in this life.It is very true that we cleanse the heart of evil memory.
twenty-sixth day.
