Recently, the Internet there are many different kinds of hype course love magic and love of hypnosis.For relatively little money to the authors of this "miracle technique" guarantee gullible women 100 percent result in winning all their favorite man.
Ostensibly for this you need to know only a few words and a few techniques, and all the men will be at your feet without any effort on your part.
Well, let us leave this kind of statement on the conscience of the authors.It is obvious that in real life, everything is much more complicated.And in order to elicit sympathy the opposite sex, a couple of phrases will be insufficient.
Nobody had still not managed to find out why this or that person has a sincere affection.Sympathy comes from above and it can not be influenced - it is either there or it is not.And the man with his sympathy determined very quickly.To do this, they just only 15 seconds.It was during that time male brain scans fully woman and gives the answer - it is interesting to him or not?If you are interested, then there is a reason to start dating.And here it is no secret that in the first instance it is estimated sexy girl.After 15 seconds of a man there is no way to assess her mind and talents.But the figure and facial prettiness - please.
woman to decide on their sympathies, it takes much more time.Will be taken into account everything - male physique, his financial situation, social status, etc.It operates quite pragmatic calculation - because if they have children, they will have to contain, and this requires a stable financial position.Another thing is that he made this calculation unconscious woman (different situation in the scope of this article), and the choice she carries on an intuitive level.
But acquaintance took place, and one of the parties has arisen sincere feeling which can be described as love at first sight.A reasonable question arises: how to awaken a sense of reciprocal partner?
How to achieve reciprocity?
Outset that there are no prescribed methods are not and can not be, since the sphere of interpersonal relations is too complex for this kind of "algoritmizirovaniya."But there is knowledge that help understand the nature of the construction of a harmonious relationship.They are open and available, but not all of them are.
So, at the heart of any relationship is the satisfaction of emotional needs.Harmonious relationship - a relationship where the same fully satisfy emotional needs of both partners.And vice versa - relationships begin to crumble as soon as one or both partners no longer receive from another what they used to receive in excess.
emotions drive people
That emotions make life colorful and rich.Meeting the emotional needs of a partner is absolutely guaranteed to him reciprocal feelings.To the emotional needs may include the need for care, affection, attention, a sense of security (for women).The list goes on.
However, emotions can not be called "out of the blue."For this purpose should be created suitable situation.We call it destabilization.Thus, in case of destabilizing the situation your partner will inevitably arise emotions that are sure to escalate in response to your feelings.
How to create destabilization?
options are many and they are all well known.These include a whole range of different kinds of instruments: compliments, gifts, caring, sincere interest in what he says partner, and his personality as a whole.You name it, and it is not necessary.
man quite easily can create a positive destabilization, if you allow yourself to begin to solve the problems of women.About how many times in my dreams the men rescued cherished ladies from all sorts of trouble!And because they thought moving in the right direction, since the positive outcome of such a situation, receive benefit both partners.Woman satisfy their need to be protected, and a man - to be strong.Helping women to overcome the difficulties, the man quickly gaining value in her eyes.Similarly, a woman who gives the man to feel its uniqueness and originality, as has much of a chance of success.
The paradox is that the emotional needs, for lack of a destabilization of the positive, negative destabilization can be met.And then, and another is to strengthen relations.But to apply the negative destabilization must be strictly dosed, otherwise it can help to quickly destroy everything, and not starting to build.An example of negative destabilization can serve as a short-term break in the relationship.Try to briefly disappear from the life of a partner - not to see and not to call him.You'll see that it will immediately lead to an explosion of emotions as during this pause, and when you reappeared in my life partner.
woman can cause negative destabilization knowingly causing jealousy in their men.But this is playing with fire, with the most unpredictable consequences.Better to try to satisfy their emotional needs, bypassing the partner (for this fit any kind of a hobby), and then be happy to tell him about it.And though a man will be a little hurt by the fact that the lady can have a great time without him, but for him more attractive it will be to have a woman who is self-sufficient and does not try to impose on him the responsibility for their own happiness.
Concludes
order to cause reciprocal feelings to yourself, you must create destabilizing the situation, to meet the emotional needs of the partner.The stronger and concentrated to be caused by your emotions, the faster they develop into sympathy, and sympathy - in love.And, of course, you need every possible way to provoke a partner to ensure that he is also "invested" in your relationship.Because the more strength and energy he will use for building your relationship, the more value they have for him.And the smaller the probability that he wants to terminate the relationship.
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