You probably have repeatedly met people too categorical in their assessments, we are talking about them is usually: his world is divided into black and white.By this we mean that in fact in the world of many colors.But is it really a lot of them really?
Look to yourself
Everything in the world is in balance, because everything is between the extreme poles - north and south, winter and summer, day and night, love and hatred ... polarizing, and boil the energythe broth in which everything alive, from which everything originates.If we call the opposite poles conventionally "white" and "black", then the people will be divided into those who are close to one of the extremes.
The "white" and "black" people are completely different outlook on life, different power grid and different attitude, but it does not mean that they can not interact.On the contrary, their collision leads to harmony - for the very golden mean, which follows from the struggle of opposites.Pole guarantee struggle of opinions, ideas, views.
If people "of color", for example, "black", remove the planet will turn into something like a paradise.But not for long.Then mankind will begin to degrade.Because without fighting, boiling, burning, comes hibernation.
Scientists estimate that about 6% of people are born with black - negative - tendencies.And about the same number of souls - "white".And the other 88% are of mixed black and white content.Roughly speaking, they are middling.Their intelligence, moral model of behavior, values, far from perfect, but the villains, they just are not.How I would say Voland: "People are just people ...ยป
upset?Not enough white, say ... Who are they - these "white"?Clever, quiet, contemplative, lazy (or, if mildly - not very active), living in harmony with nature, able to appreciate the beauty and charge it with energy.They live in their own world, in an ivory tower, preferring the quiet solitude communicate with gray and black.They do not need to assert yourself and prove something to the world, they do not like alarms, coercion and pressure.They were good, as there is little in the world able to bring them out of balance.Most often, their view of the surrounding condescendingly benevolent.Ambitious goals "white" is not set, and hence do not reach specific heights.
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"black" the other way around: they are constantly worried about something, an inner voice keeps telling them that we must go forward to actively influence on others.They crave power and glory, and reaching their goals, just calm down for a short time then there is an inner discomfort and again ... need to something to strive for.
Mental unfamiliar to them, and all because of the "black" is not able to draw vital energy from nature.It is for them an alien and cold.They must be constantly fed with energy of people - they are energy vampires.And always their "donors" excite - ted as children stick anthill."Black" make others "burn" and release energy.Sometimes bonfires own passions, put pressure on the others, causing dance to their tune, causing the resistance ... to provide the desired -zhivitelnoe "meal" of other people's emotions.Here, any suitable human passions: vanity, sore ego, admiration, fear, anger, irritation, envy -from all this "black" are able to produce "food".
engorged from donors, for a while they acquire a sense of happiness and inner strength.That is a state of triumph, victory, power over people - their main goal.
Of course, the "black" is, except malosimpatichnye and enviable quality: the ability to concentrate on the task at hand, self-discipline, a clear sense of purpose, the ability to quickly mobilize all its resources and professional effectiveness.Trendy today, the term "effective manager" - it's almost about our "black".And there was the time in Russia - this is their time.Even major drawbacks: ambition, excessive pride, lust for wealth and the blinding vanity, society is no longer frowned upon, but rather welcome.But the trump card of "white": peace of mind, logic, balance, ability to step back from the struggle - turn into an atavism.In what little use in the race for success.Contemplation, penchant for reflection, disdain for material success today are perhaps the main obstacle on the path to self-realization.The phrase "If you're so smart, why are so poor?" - Most often refers specifically to "white."
Yes, "white" also has disadvantages: the unwillingness to sacrifice personal peace, the desire to spare their feelings and do not take to heart the wrong ... So, the ideal person to be sought somewhere between the border - the "black" and "white"?Apparently, it is necessary to mix two colors, and we get a good person?
There is no perfect!
Well, actually, in nature there is nothing strictly good or bad: it is a relative term scale, invented by people.Natural persons, that is, one who lives in harmony with the laws of the planet (the so-called cradle of civilization), is not likely to be determined by us as white and fluffy, but "black" we did not call.That is, we use these estimates to man the social, not living close to nature, have learned other laws.And this social man, alas, thinks more about the pleasures, careers, about money than about the problems of environmental conservation of its beauty, of his tribe ... He seeks to occupy a higher position in society, he thinks about his welfare - yes, more thanfor the good of others.Hence, here it is necessary to seek a reasonable compromise - that is the very middling, "gray".
They live according to the principle and of itself does not hurt, and others do not do evil.In all situations the gray thinking not only about their own benefit, but also the benefits of the other hand, not only thinking, but also distributes in accordance with this principle, material and other benefits: energy, money, things, love, attention ... Paradoxically,but the more a man of "gray", the more he gives to others.That is a reasonable concern for the welfare of another person - it is not the prerogative of the "white" and "gray".And the best of the "gray" live very well, they have a lot of sympathy for other living beings.They are characterized by genuine altruism: it is when a person donates something neighbor without feeling like a hero, without consciousness of the victim."Grey" does good as a rule, does not care about the consequences and gratitude."Black", which can also sometimes make a good work, will think about what the benefit promises him his act.But "white", do something generous, not so bezoglyaden as "gray" colleague, he will long ponder and weigh, suffer from the fact that he has to break the routine life, get out of balance, do something unusual... and help your neighbor it is received not from compassion, but on the understanding - so it should."Grey" does not reason, it is natural to help the drowning or starving.Ironically, the real friends are always "gray".They are not perfect - no.But with them warm and safe.From "black" the same - like a volcano.And with the "white" - cold and lonely ...
Margatira Manoskina
Articles Source: oracle-today.ru
