Even from childhood, we repeat that it is necessary to be honest and speak always the truth.But if we look around, we notice that all the lying and cheating.
habit of cheating begins to form in early childhood.For example, baby, showing their curiosity, broken toys or broke my mother's favorite perfume, and is scolded by his parents, and possibly even punished.
child, fear of punishment, is cheating, because it is driven by a psychological factor - the fear.Fear of punishment, fear of exposure ... Here it is, a real disease, and the hype - is its symptoms and effects.
And sometimes people just prefer to remain silent.But this is also a type of lie.After all, if we do something back, then, to hide the truth, the truth.
Whoever changes his mind on only one breath of wind fashion, afraid of losing respect.It is not easy to express their thoughts, to tell the truth, in the meantime while the rest try to ignore it, hide, afraid to look like a white crow.After all, to tell the truth, you need to have great courage.Therefore easier to "covered" common deception!
man, hiding his thoughts and feelings, or fears of condemnation by society, or is afraid to appear helpless in this cruel world.There is nothing worse than to feel contempt for those who share the values of the fashion world, and who are willing to destroy the friendly and open person.
Lies stores all our fears: fear of people, fear of society, fear of family and friends, the fear of life and its circumstances, is not always easy and quick to solve.
Lies - a form of hypocrisy, by which we can look at some things and circumstances, on the other hand, where there is our gain.
If I do not know how to change this or that situation, I can slightly alter and embellish it, repaint, so to speak, in a different color.And then I can not suffer or not to suffer, because I do to change it.
Is cheating evil?Is he carries a fear?We, when the time underestimate the ability of someone cheating?
What a lie - a lie, provides sign language.So it all leads to the conclusion that animals are much truer than the "combed" culture and the human mind.
As already noted, the main factor lies - it is fear.Over time, a person begin to appear qualities such as selfishness, cowardice, lack of confidence, manifested violent fantasy that leads to a great delusion and deception.They appear in the form of action, even necessary, but false, insults, injuries, that we are doing, without thinking, but do not forgive, when they are applied to us.
Endless conversations are non-existent circumstances.Fully lack of trust in friendship, in science, in politics.No one no one believes.So just all lies, why should we believe the people who appear on television?And to whom should we believe?
Every year, life becomes artificial and friendly and human relations - is meaningless, because all around the lie.
Here are some solutions to this problem.
main thing - do not be afraid!It is also necessary to start "study" itself.The ancient philosophers said that the first step to the knowledge of the gods and the universe, and allows you to know the people with whom we share our existence.
I also want to add that should be a little "off" your imagination and look at the world through the eyes that see the pros and cons of reality.
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