This question some ask long before marriage, and some - already when the family is literally bursting at the seams, and before the collapse, it seems only a step.How to become a good wife?We have forgotten how, unfortunately, and to listen and to hear.And yet forgotten how to talk.Therefore, to understand, too, paradoxically, we have forgotten how.
1. Question: how to be a good wife?The answer is: learn to express their needs, thoughts, maintaining a deep respect for the person loved.We forgot about the most frequent wish of the couple: "Love and advice to you!".And all because with the board starts.Even love - not always the main feeling for the perfect pair.Home - willingness to compromise and the ability to talk.That talk.Listen, to delve, to participate, to understand, to sympathize.A wise woman never begin with scandals in the family if something does not add up.Not for nothing because in the old days was valued gentleness."Meek, like an angel of God ..." and sought to marry just such a - gentle, understanding, kind, affectionate.After all, the word good and nice beast.And we are with you - go, not animals, and people are reasonable.Therefore, to be a good wife, learn to understand.Everything can be discussed.Any problem can be solved.Any.Without exaggeration, and exaggeration.
2. Question: how to be a good wife?The answer: do not criticize!Now about the criticism.Honestly - you yourself pleasant criticism?And in society, but in front of witnesses?No man hailed by critics in the party.Even fair.Especially - in front of strangers.Especially - female.Perhaps he would say nothing.But certainly precipitate remains.Do not criticize, ladies.In an extreme case - whisper in your ear.So, at least you save a certain intimacy, and criticism apprehended easier.But it in extreme cases.Learn again, convey my thoughts.Calmly and correctly.If you want the perfect husband?Perceive it that way.Let advance.Believe in it.Faith spreads its wings.
3. Question: how to be a good wife?Answer: Be faithful assistant.A wise woman will always support a loved one.He really needs and understanding, and support.Especially in difficult times.Everyone should be the only intimate, cozy place, where you want to go back, which pulls the soul, where it is always understand and regret, where they will not be condemned.And this place should be your home.Be proud of your husband.Praise it.Admire them.Sincerely.For real.And do not hide it.Neither him nor the other.You - the best for each other.
4. Question: how to be a good wife?A: Keep your favorite sexual interest.Physical intimacy can not be perfect without emotional intimacy.That it attracts and decorates sexual activity.Flirt with her husband.Flirted with him.Do not wait for symptoms romance of it, show yourself an example.Do not forget: the appearance must always be perfect (even many years after the wedding).Forget about the "kitchen" robes and slippers.Your clothes - beautiful clothes, elegant stockings, heels (though small, but still).Even pajamas (or nightie) should warm up interest.And do not be afraid to discuss desires.Whom do it, if not with him, loved?
5. Question: how to be a good wife?Answer: let her husband's personal space.Let him that luxury.Even if you want to be there every minute.Understand that a man has his, men's needs.And this, of course, is not limited to communication with parents.Before your wedding he had other interests: colleagues, friends, hobbies (fishing, hunting, bowling - whatever).Do not attempt to redraw that evolved over the years.Do not restrict her husband.Your moods and requirements are translated in his irritation.Best case scenario.To start.And then the inevitable scandal with the transition to the opposition and to mind the slogan: "Made out of spite!"Bright prospects?No.Therefore let all the same private space of her husband.By the way, you get your own space and return.Hard to understand?Then just take.
Love and advice to you!
