Women accuse men: they throw a family, children, go to the young and beautiful.Men complain that the girls need money and romantic "snot", so they go to the rich and romantic sponsors.All told, they are thrown.We will understand?
For a start - a metaphor
Coming tram you, use it comfortably, soft seats, warmth, security.Tram big and iron, and most importantly - luck wherever you want.You owe no choice but to pay the money for the fare.Full Consensus.But come, your stop, got out and went home.A tram went their separate ways.Question: Who has thrown?
You go home, you know - tomorrow come another tram, thanks to this that dovёz.How many of them will still be in life?And the tram its way, it is necessary to many, he was waiting for the other passengers.No complaints, everyone is happy.
Why do so many complaints from women, if a man went to the other or just left?Though if to another, it is insulting.The unhappy man, if a woman has decided that she found a better man?
victim - it is a position of reality perception and evaluation of the event, as well as certain state.
women victims
«He left me, destroyed the family left the child, went to some" mymra. "Status at these words should be suppressed in the eyes of misfortune, his hands dropped, his shoulders hunched and always - tears, as the main proof of the correct assessment of his actions: "Well, just a scoundrel."
Man evaluated as a source of misery - the pursuer.A victim of his condition shows in the hope of finding a savior who will listen, support, sympathize and confirms, "Yes, your ex - complete bastard."This is a favorite amusement of the victim - find the "liberators."The main thing that was free ears to drain their experiences.
«The Savior", in fact, get rid of the suffering of the victims can not.Why is that?Victim will not allow.She did not need.
Try advised to begin to live anew, joyfully and happily build their lives, thanking former man for what was to focus on what will happen to other worthy person.There is a chance of "savior" to join the "pursuer" get accused of callousness, brutality, lack of understanding.
As a rule, women are more talented in playing the role of a victim of circumstances and various treacherous men.Probably more than girls from childhood watching soap operas, read romance novels where the main character have to be a victim.The role of the student, digestible, easily turned.After that, some women do not hardly ever off.And the men?
Male victim
If she left him - that she was a fool, hysterical and, in general, a very young lady of easy virtue, which is usually formulated shorter.If a man begins to drink, it's grief.The victim is a savior in the form of alcohol.The role of the ears to drain the emotions operate drinking companions.More
can inflict disassembly with the new boyfriend.As an option - with a former girlfriend.Because the brain is upset by alcohol and suffering, the victim does not assume the obligation to think and be responsible for the consequences of their actions.Blame "them", they must be punished.From this fight, stabbing and murder of a great and pure love and justice: "So you can not get anybody!".The prison sits a lot of male "victims" who killed his former companion.
can say that the role of the male victim's easy to turn into a persecutor, and then again becomes a victim.The circle closes.
for the position of "victim" is usually a habit to pass the buck to the unfairness of life, the people around them and the lack of habit of thinking that is under a great internal benefit.
If someone is guilty, then I'm right and would not answer."Victim" can only feel sorry for and sympathize.And who is against the - the villain!Therefore, all the unwanted "victim" - who?Men who had left his wife, destroy the family, etc., as well as the women who ... What to do?If the person refuses to get into the position of the victim, his "quit" is not possible, he does not play.
Parting - a part of life, and are often not up to us the decision of a loved one to link their fate with someone else.The reaction to the separation - only our own artistic choices.
Say to yourself - I'm not a victim!Then you can simply state a fact: parted ways as a tram.At the same time remember that necessarily comes another.
And who gets tossed?
Articles Source: psylive.ru
