man who has reached the milestone of 30 years, as a rule, begins to think about the meaning of his life.Someone finds an answer, some do not.Thus, the former can not give a plausible answer to the second.Why is that?On this and other questions, I'll try to answer.
and start with the fact that by itself the question: "What is the meaning of life?" Has no answer.Because that is the correct answer: "the meaning of life in life itself," as a rule, is not accepted.Therefore, I propose, first, to find themselves.And then, in this life itself.Anyway, it helped me.
I start my search with a simple, straightforward question to me: "And what, in fact, I want?", "What do I like?", "What I want to do?", Etc.
Often difficult to answer the questions such.Because we have been taught all my life to restrain their desire to hide them.So they are hidden.Yes, sometimes so deep that it takes time for the digging!
Say you understand what you want.However, it turned out that afford to do as they wish difficult.Firstly, it is terrible (it also happens), and secondly, "it does not matter."Thus, the first obstacle to itself - to overcome their fears and stereotypes.
In fact, there is nothing wrong to allow yourself to be so, as you are!Believe me, from what you just relax and begin to listen to yourself, begin to carry out the desire, nothing terrible will happen!On the other hand, allowing their advantages and disadvantages manifest themselves, you thereby discover your true path to perfection!
overcoming stereotypes "is not important" it depends on the revaluation of its property.Now for you the most important person - you!Only you can live your life the way you want, but you can perform well all their desires.And only given to you to understand the meaning of his life.All "should", "should" and other duties, of course can not be completely overlooked.But they have to find its niche in your value system, after your personal needs.Of course, a normal person, this question will cause a bunch of contradictions.On this topic, you can read the article about Erich Fromm self-love.Its meaning is to ensure that the egoist is not someone who does not like the others, is the one who does not love himself.You will not argue with a recognized philosopher, sociologist and psychoanalyst?
Suppose you passed the first difficult stage.And allow yourself to do what he likes.But here there are a number of obstacles.Each of these obstacles own.They consist of the need to overcome all those imperfections that hinder or do not allow to succeed in their business, achieve its goals.Thus, your next task: to overcome the internal obstacles to success, for recognition.Again, a lot of difficulties, challenges, overcoming and work on yourself.And without this in any way.
Throughout this process, it is important to learn to calm and relaxation, acceptance.Without these basic skills you do not get to move forward.
And when you find the strength to open up to yourself, know yourself, understand yourself, meet and indulge when you're on the road to success (or have already reached it), then it is advisable to put the question: "What is the meaning of my life? "Or, how interesting some" What is my benefit humanity? "(if you have not yet received an answer to these questions ...)
question" what is my benefit humanity? "has the answer:" My good inthat I have.I came on this earth by God's will, then this was already a sense.In addition, I have been doing their job.People see my work and appreciate.This means I am useful. "At first I imagined those words repeated like a mantra.It is not believed.
Again, finding serenity, relaxation.
until it comes back.This may be the current situation in life.When you being in a relaxed state we chose the faithful and harmonious way and understand that this is your way.This may be a hint from the book, saying the announcer on television.The answer can come from anywhere.And it comes in the form of a simple knowledge: "This is mine."
And then everything goes in a clear and simple picture."I live to work on yourself, to improve your soul.The meaning of my life in life itself. "And now these words to you are not mere words, and infinite wisdom and a deep understanding of the great meaning of life ...
Good luck in your search!
