So much has piled up jokes on the topic of female logic, so much abuse from the men heard some of the girls, which "no luck" to the family.The climax of pain is when a person begins a female to ask yourself the question: "What should I do?I'm a fool".All wrong, but if there is a man prone to sadism, he turns the knife in the wound you with pleasure, writing off out on your low intelligence.
Evil can not remember
If you are so offended is not the first time, begin to closely monitor the offender and ... write down all his mistakes.Will, as a joke: "Evil can not remember, that I need to write it."At the slightest collision took out his paper and read out the list.And said: "I have one mistake, and you have so much.And who of us is a fool ?!Do not you think, what to do?I'm stupid, but I'm learning from the mistakes. "
will send it ... the asterisk
first time offender will harden, thunderstruck.So if your phrase, "Why am I such a fool," inspired by the environment, protect - and look for other people's doorsteps.Yes, it is unpleasant, but necessary.In general, it is best to go from bad people physically - leaving from parents divorcing sadistic husband, send in a bath of bad friends.You're not a masochist?
first all fool
If you make a mistake in any job, thank God (or fate - to your taste), which made it now, rather than in more difficult circumstances.Figuratively speaking, in a new area of activity are all fools and fools.And people are not always able to learn from others' mistakes.Do not dream of miracles - without proper training it is impossible to miss, so consider that just paid the price for the lesson.
And how stupid?
«What a fool I am!" - A cry from the heart.Stop calls himself.Who gave you the right to itself or another to refer themselves to a particular point of the scale of intelligence?Even scolded all the IQ tests no two shades of "clever" and "stupid", but there is more than one hundred possible number of options.So call himself a fool - it is simply inaccurate.If you're angry at yourself, then self-criticism does not help, especially such destructive as "stupid girl."
Relationship - field free play
Do not concentrate on what you - smart or stupid.Think about what you did wrong.When it comes to relationships, then all graduation intelligence has nothing to do with it.It is impossible to manage relationships, whatever was written in clever books.Interaction between people takes place in many ways, they are not always converge characters, that is silly to worry that you are not dependent.And for each of the individual tactics and strategy have to choose individually.Do not carry negative experiences into new relationships - because people something very different.
How to become smarter
phrase "What a fool I am?" Suggests that you are emotionally ill.And nothing else speaks.It is better to put the question differently: "How to be smarter?" Becoming more curious, inquisitive, read more, learn something that is too hard for you, raise questions and find answers.Even reading the forums on the topic of "hobby" increases your awareness and indirectly can improve intelligence.Do not despair and do not call myself a fool!If you do not have the diagnosis of "mental retardation", all can be corrected.
