have before you a list consisting of 15 items, in case of failure from which your life will flow much easier.We hold a lot of internal positions that result in pain, suffering and constant stress, instead of simply afford to let them go, and finally plunge into total freedom.But instead, we also intend to firmly cling to them.It's time to stop doing that comes right now, starting today, we will systematically get rid of those items that we do not need, and let's start positive changes in their lives.Become a happy person can have today, so - go ahead!
1. Get rid of the need always and everywhere to be right.
Many of us every day adhere to a stable position in which we permanently feel themselves right at any and all issues and conflicts in life, even if because of this may break off relationship with emotionally close person, even in thosemoments when own "rightness" brings heartache yourself and people around.Whenever you feel the urge to fight for right, ask a domestic issue as did Dr. Wayne Dyer: "What is the difference in how I am right or wrong? What's in it for me? Is my ego is so great?".
2. Give up the need to control.
Become a happy man can be when prepared to give up without fail needs to control everything that happens to you and around you.This applies to situations, events, other people, and it does not matter - it's close colleagues or simply allow them to be in your life in one degree or another, and you will notice how significantly improve your internal health.
"allows all happen accomplished. The world will conquer those who let him go. If you're not going to do it - you win the world" - so said Lao Tzu.
3. Give up guilt in all its manifestations.
does not support your need for blaming others that you do not have something that you feel or do not feel. Stop to put the power to someone else's shoulders and take responsibility for your life, and you'll be surprised by the fact that the startto become a happy man.
4. Stop watching and self-abasement.
very large number of people feel bad because of the harmful way of thinking, filled with a lot of negativity to yourself. Do not believe everything your mind tells you.
"Mindis a great tool in the event that if you know how to use it correctly.If used incorrectly it becomes a destructive tool "(Eckhart Tolle).
5. Discard the beliefs that limit you.
Do not let your old beliefs have power over you, do not let them dictate what you can and what can not."Faith - is not an idea that belongs to the mind, is the idea that it holds" (Hibiscus Alley).
6. Stop complaining.
Get rid of your constant need of the already complaining about the people, the world and everything that makesyou miserable and depressed. Remember, nothing will blow you this deplorable state of mind, if only you do not have desired. Do not underestimate the power of positive thinking, become a happier person and think in a light vein. Stop complaining and you will significantly improve your qualitylife!
7. Indulge in the luxury of criticizing everyone and everything.
Get rid of your desire to constantly criticize things, current events and other people who may be different from you.We are all different, but each of us wants to be happy, to be loved and to be understood.We all want something, just like something or someone wants us some involvement.
8. Give up the need for impressing others.
Stop, finally, try to sound the person that you really are not.At that moment, when you stop to pose as someone else, and take off all your masks, you come up with this themselves, and the attention of others, and so will be directed to you without heavy for the effort.
9. Do not resist change.
changes - it is always good, they will help to significantly improve your life and the lives of those around you."Just follow your bliss and you will see how the universe will show you the door in the places you've ever seen de only the walls" (Joseph Campbell).
10. Discard ethics.
Stop hang labels on people and the events that you can not understand, just open your mind.
"The highest form of ignorance is the case when you reject something, anything about him not knowing" (Dr. Wayne Dyer).
11. Give up your fears.
Fear is an illusion, in fact it is not - it is you've created it yourself, everything is just your mind."The only thing is fear is fear itself" (Franklin D. Roosevelt).
12. Give up their own excuses.
Collect them all in a box and tell them that they are dismissed.How many times have we ourselves have limited themselves by force of their own excuses, instead of what to grow and work on themselves and improving their lives, we find excuses to avoid it.Stop doing it.
13. Let go of the past.
Yes, it's really hard, especially when the past looks better than the present, and the future seems dark paint.However, remember that at the moment - that's all you have, and will ever be.Release the past, fold longing for him, it is no longer enough to deceive themselves, be here and now, and enjoy the moment.
14. Avoid attachments.
you can separate yourself from the events and things that surround you, it does not mean that you give up the feeling of love to all of this, no.Love and affection are completely different in nature, and affection generated by the fear of losing something, and love - it's always something pure, kind and selfless.Where she is, there is no room for fear when you realize that, you can hardly describe in words is serene bliss.
15. Avoid interference in your life other people's expectations.
Many people live their lives in a direct line with what others think about them: parents, teachers, friends and enemies.These people completely ignore their inner desires and your inner voice, they are so busy that match the rest of the opinion that in this race to lose all control over their real life.Be aware of what you have in there is only one life, and she lived right at this moment, you must be the owner, do not let the opinions of others distract you from your path.
