special class, which is isolated to date only in the countries of the former Soviet Union - the intelligentsia - is often referred to with two shades of relationships: respect and neglect.The second arises from the allegedly low viability, inability to adapt and "get well".In fact, an intelligent man - is a particular system of values.
Surrogate Christianity
Who are the intellectuals?Category of people in society, not just busy in intellectual work, but also directly related to the production of cultural goods.That is, cultural workers, teachers and researchers.These people in the times of atheism ethical canons formed very close to the high of Christianity.The basis of intelligence - sacrifice, and respect for one's neighbor, restraint and underlined sincere goodwill.
no more than the behavior of
intelligent man - a person who remembers not only about their own interests, but also because of its status as an intellectual moralist is forced to lead by example.And it's not limited to a simple upbringing.How to become an intelligent man?
careful not to offend
Chekhov wrote in their standards that "a man must be intelligent," but simply called to be perfect ... in all its forms.One simply has to strive for excellence."Secrets" intelligent people do not include anything unreal.The first step for the development of "good practice" - improving self-control.An intelligent man - a man discreet.But not in the sense of a lack of spontaneity.He just decides to take control of those manifestations of his nature, which could potentially be uncomfortable for others or can cause a conflict and create an unpleasant atmosphere.
genuine warmth
second feature intelligent person - a positive "upfront" attitude towards others.That is not normal for a man bad for someone to treat just because situational conflict of interest.Intelligent people - it is a kind of peacefulness and relaxation, lack of coarse pulses.And yes, such a person does not use "strong words" even "in the subject."Rest assured - even in the unpleasant situation that has arisen suddenly, he simply exclaims: "Oh!" Or something like that.And it's not ostentatious.This is - the realization of the secular principle of the Gospel "from the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks."That is, an intelligent man negativity and poor simply do not have, so he swore, if he falls on his finger something heavy.
Every word matters
obscene But the inadmissibility of expressing their emotions is also connected to a third aspect of an intelligent man - a special, very reverent attitude to word the question.Let us explain: such a person simply does not allow for anything "dirty" for themselves, there is no ambiguity and vulgarity.You kind of person seems too simple and too "right"?He'll understand, he'll recognize your right to live in their own way.But will remain with their views.
