Genera and small child - not a reason to "put on a cross," says that "life is over", stop to see friends, go out just for a walk with the baby in the Doctor Hospital, or to the store.
Despite the new priorities and the difficulties associated with caring for a child, the young mother needed rest and chat in good company, even if her friends do not have children, and they have - other interests not related to motherhood.
How not to lose friends after birth - 10 tips for the young mother:
1. Talking with friends, share anything you want to talk about the baby in half and the remaining half split again.However, what is left, you can share it.Exception - girlfriend adores children and dreamed of their own, here to share the experience can be long, the main thing to not get boring.
2. The physiological details of pregnancy, labor, breast and regurgitation leave for female friends to the playground.In an extreme case, a female can now share all of this, but only once.But with a strong half of mankind such a thing to discuss is not recommended.Exception - a direct question, "How was it?".
3. Do not ask friends to sit with the child.The exception only one - if they themselves have proposed, without pressure from you.
4. Go for holidays and meetings better without a child, and if reached, then do not call home every five minutes, because the instructions to the nurse or the husband can be issued in advance.Exception - children's party or a pre-determined "invited to duplicate."
5. Though the baby and is the most expensive thing on the light, and do not forget to love yourself organize hours of rest when a child engaged husband, mother or nanny, and pay this time her appearance, reading or hobby.Interests news, cinema novelties and all those addicted than before birth, at least a minimum amount not to be limited to domestic issues.
6. If you invite friends into the house, take care of their comfort by the time when the baby is sleeping or can not do without your immediate attention (a dream trip with Dad or a babysitter, etc.).
7. Refrain from comments like "will give birth, then you will understand", "After the birth, and you forget about the waist," etc.Remember, the birth of a child - not personal grace or punishment, sent down from heaven, and opportunity that are almost all women, so that they still will.It is better to once again wish good luck to her friends, and there are no problems.
8. If you are giving birth to something of great interest (hiking, mushroom picking, photography, etc.), then after a while, try to do the same, but with the child and friends (if they do not mind).A trip into the woods with the baby is not so terrible, perhaps he even enjoy the fresh air.An example of many young mothers said that the child - not an obstacle, but a test of strength.
9. «Kangaroo" or sling will have several orders of magnitude more mobile.Use this (of course, if the baby is like), and the publication will be available, and the baby will always be close to you.
10. Enjoy life, though not all always smooth, but a positive outlook on life works wonders.Believe in yourself and everything will be fine!
Articles Source: 8women.ru
