Our whole life - continuous meetings and partings.With family, friends, city and country of employment and occupation.Frustrated man, whom we trust, we can be a good lesson.Or destroy life, causing an open wound.Can I keep the immediacy of perception and sincerity and to protect themselves from the pain?Or should act on the principle of "do not betray the one who does not trust anyone"?But it is almost impossible to live like this.
Disappointment in people may be due not so much his betrayal or low act.After all, a lot can understand and forgive.Stronger than we are concerned about the need to change their perception of it.Frustrated man is always fraught with emotions and feelings - it is most often due to the fact that we did not know his present, which created a fictitious character.The discrepancy between this image with our expectations and causes so much resentment and bitterness.
Quotes about disappointment in people teach us wise and calm attitude toward human weaknesses.For example, one of them says: "Faith helps to live. Disappointment taught to think."But Churchill formulated the idea somewhat differently: "If you are still able to be disappointed - so you're still young."Consider these words, for they are true and witty.Skepticism and cynicism, the belief that the world is not credible - a kind of old age soul.
Frustrated man is possible only when we believe others.Can I prepare for it?Wear protective armor?We can only develop a tolerance and forgiveness.Frustrated loved one is akin to the destruction of the idol of the deity.If we look at someone who is dear to us, not as an incarnation of the ideal, but as a mere mortal, with all its strengths and weaknesses, we will be much easier to accept his sins.
How did survive the disappointment in people?How not to become embittered and did not hate him?Sometimes it seems that this is not possible.Betrayal and meanness hurt.But it is necessary to try to separate yourself in the emotions that cause this or that act, your idea of a man from the real needs and situations.Are you angry, or are suffering from the fact that someone did not close as expected?What is uttered about you a lot of bad, or meets the other / others?Try to analyze the situation from a different angle.Why, in fact, the man had to meet your expectations and imagination and not do as it seems right?After all, you yourself would be much easier to forgive sins and shortcomings.Because you can understand yourself.So try to understand both.What motivated them?What were the target in front of him?Surely he was not trying to discourage you or especially hurt.
We always overestimate the bar, demanding life all at once.In his youth, we are full of hopes and dreams.Even ourselves, we can not perceive objectively.Emotional maturity is manifested in the fact that not live with illusions.To accept the reality as it is.Between cynicism and total skepticism rosy optimism and truly mature attitude.To live here and now, with those around, taking the world, themselves and others.
