Adolescence - a rather complicated and important period in the life of each person.Illusions, maximalism and the belief that everything is done correctly, and it seems strange that you do not understand parents who try to break and something to teach (some nonsense as it seems).
The hardest time to love.In a conversation with a girl who like, feel like a hero, a very intelligent, strong and liberated, but imagine that at this point tell her about your feelings and somewhere whole fuse out.You just do not know how to propose to meet the girl.It is terrible to admit, terribly open - and suddenly you laugh right in your face?
necessary to tune in to what so ever can not continue, you need to start making decisions and be able to admit their feelings.
Before you offer to meet a girl, you need to carefully prepare for the conversation.Do not be afraid of what she "otoshet" and make you look stupid and weak.Remember that only weaklings can not talk about their feelings and desires, and strong personalities able to arrange dot the "i".In the end, you see that she likes you too, or she'll somehow stand out from other guys.So there is the reason.Not necessarily, of course, that she is burning with passion, can you tell her cute, but that's all it is necessary to know and to decide.Perhaps your relationship stopper just because you do not know how to offer to meet the girl because of his fear of rejection.
think in advance where it was easier to talk to you.If you do not know how to offer to meet the girl, but crave to do it, it will not be as you're on the football pitch, break or near the entrance to talk about their feelings?
It is also important to determine the place where the girl you confess your feelings.Perhaps it will be a small cafe if you have enough pocket money, or just a walk in the park, maybe she likes to feed the pigeons.We need you to be together.
So, what to do and how to propose to meet the girl?First of all, you must advance to find the right words.Everything must be at the highest level, ie,the conversation should go like talking to adults serious people.The conversation should not be slang and jargon, such as "Do you hear, and you're funny, let's muddied with you!".This not only hurt the girl, but her and turn away from you, as a girl - fragile creation, dreamy and such phrases just offend her.A rehabilitated will be very difficult, as it will be disappointed in you.
Of course, you do not know how to start out with a girl and you're scared, but you need to have the courage to prepare for the conversation.
We must advance to find the words with which you begin to speak.Of course, it should be genuine truth about that girl you like, she's beautiful, smart and do not like it, that is, something it has is that you attract.
not rash compliments and say "from the heart".Even if you stutter a little bit - not terrible, it's even play you "at hand", she will believe that you are sincere, so worried.
Also, there should be no gum, chips and everything else.All this may be having a conversation.
Tell her that you are pleased with it a number, and you would like to do it more often.At a walk, going to the cinema, skiing and so on.
if she would agree to be your girlfriend - well, the goal is reached, and you're happy.Then you will remember with a laugh that worried and did not know how to tie a relationship with a girl.
If you were wrong, and she told you she was not ready, do not want or something like that - do not worry, invited her to be just good friends.Well, what did you not turn and did not leave with his head down?It should also have a sense of self-esteem.No, it is not, it will just be friends like before.And the girls in your life will still oh how much!
