«Beats - means love" - very often we hear those words from the lips of women subjected to domestic violence.Many such phrases are trying to justify their husbands and partners.But the essence remains the same - you live male tyrant who sooner or later will show its true face.Children, women, old men - all potential victims of domestic violence.They are physically weaker, and therefore can not give a proper rebuff.To distinguish several kinds of domestic violence.Physical, psychological, sexual, emotional and economic.Let's look at each of them in detail.
Domestic violence: psychological
to this type of violence are all kinds of insults, intimidation and threats.Man forced to make undesirable for him to action.It is the most common form of violence in the home, it is not so easy to identify.It goes hand in hand with other manifestations tiranizma.This kind of family relationships can be seen in the treatment of parents with their children.It happens so often that adults are showing towards the child indifference, humiliate him, thus reducing his self-esteem.Because these children often grow up insecure people, with a lot of complexes.
Domestic violence: emotional
This kind of violence is manifested frequent criticism of one of the partners.An example of this may be saying her husband to the wife about her appearance, humiliated her in public.Often, the man controls all the money in the family, thus not allowing the spouse to buy yourself something without his permission.Woman inspired every time she nobody, no matter what is not capable.When the self-esteem of his wife brought to the lower trims, often in the course are his fists.
Domestic violence: economic
This violence manifests itself in the fact that the man does not allow a woman to work, he is in full control of the family budget, not allowing his wife to make purchases.Thus, he drives it in full economic dependency itself.There is fertile ground for blackmail, abuse and battering.
Domestic violence: physical
This kind of violence speaks for itself.Beating, slapping, spanking offensive - all this suggests that it's time to take drastic decisions and striking out from his life a man-tyrant.Sometimes a woman forgives such antics, but remember, if a man at least once raised his hand to you, then it most likely happen again.
Domestic violence: sexual
often follows physical.A man beating a woman, forcing to have sex against her will.
What to do?
exposure to violence, women often ask, "What if the husband beats?" The answer is simple: to leave.But the problem can not be solved so easily.Many are afraid to change the situation in terms of economic instability, lack of housing.Other children stopped.But put on the scales their lives and the lives of their children against the stability of a husband-tyrant - it's just pointless.In any case, the decision is yours.If once again you were beaten, contact the hospital and commit assault.In the absence of a husband is to collect all the necessary items, documents, and put the money deposited with relatives or friends.Do not talk to her husband and does not threaten his departure.It can let you start with that.Try to take the greatest possible number of things.It is necessary to exclude the possibility of returning to the house.Otherwise, you run the risk of being beaten again.And remember, do not believe his vows to reform.For those who dare to hit you once, it is likely to make it again.
