rudeness in relation to the whole, which refers to a concept that is deviation from a particular standard or measurements. example, rough boards - thus not treated, not planed and polished, that is not relevant to our understanding of the standard board.Coarse facial features describe an example Sobakevich - the hero of Gogol's poem "Dead Souls".Nature, creating his face "from all minced shoulder: Enough ax again - went nose, grabbing the other - out lips, large eyes and a drill kovyrnul not obskoblivshi, let the light ...".In the mass consciousness there is an idea, a person can be considered a balanced and correct.A deviation from the standard makes it rough, as in the case Sobakevich.In other words, rudeness is always some kind of incompleteness, neotesannost, rawness, neotshlifovannost, neobtertost, ie the deviation from the standard set by our ideas.The greater the deviation, the more rude.
By default behavior we usually understand polite behavior corresponding to certain standards, public regulations and conventions.
insolence, insolence and impudence can not be weighed on the scale of civility.As the saying goes, flies separately, cutlets separately.Chutzpah commensurate with modesty, shame insolence and impudence to the ceremony.In audacity, unlike other general rudeness orientation.Audacity has always focused on its vastly superior force.The crudeness and rudeness are usually focused on weakness.When explain the causes of rudeness nervous breakdown, fatigue or irritation want to ask: "Why are your nerves stand, when you meet with the force?Why did you hide the irritation to the Chief? »
must understand that courtesy, as a starting point the degree of coarseness, is a relative concept.In one highly cultured family understanding of civility, and if the primary cell of society become the lingua franca obscenities, the coarseness and understanding are blurry.Rudeness, like politeness - a relative term.We imagine that we are in one of the cells among gladiators indoors Coliseum.In the neighboring cell rushes to fight our next opponent and we look to him: "Dear, dear sir.Kindly give me the grace - to smile. "- "Bullied, the cattle?Roughly?Without you there to be rude, "- he says.As you can see, depending on the circumstances of politeness can be perceived as rude.In the underworld, where the principle of "Do not believe, do not fear, do not ask" rude as natural and harmonious as alien and unnatural civility.
Rudeness have to understand the following.Every word spoken by us to be friendly, calm and supportive.The awesome power of the word focus.Underestimate the power of speech - a great folly, which is fraught with sad consequences.Rudeness, no matter what the nature of it did not have, leading to the destruction of happiness, suffering and pain.Rough it inevitably leads to suffering.Rudeness and peace do not get along.Barker deprives himself of the opportunity to live in harmony with itself and with the outside world.When a man is no peace, happiness is impossible.You can tell a person is very unpleasant things, even the death sentence, and not to offend him if words are spoken in a calm, friendly tone.Do not be offended at what I said, and then, as he said, what tone.The degree of roughness affects primarily tone.Bad tone means violence.Man thinks, if he says so rude tone with anger and irritation, hence what he says is not true and not true.If he says, roughly, so wrong.Born conflict.
Rudeness should also know that our subconscious all the words spoken in a foreign address takes at his own expense.It does not understand the pronoun "he", "she", "them".Barker, insulting others, actually insulting himself and thus destroys their self-esteem, destroys your body withstand Ya What if it constantly humiliate, insult and name-calling?Why pets are so beneficial to our health?The secret is simple - every day a dog is right for you, and you pet her, saying: "My good.Clever.Well done".Your subconscious mind picks up that you are a good, intelligent, and, besides, well done.
uncouth lout Sobakevich clearly not friends with the scale of civility.His rudeness slammed courtesy as boring fly.Chairman at Sobakevich - "a fool, what they do not produce";Governor - the "first robber in the world ... and the face of predatory";"Give him the knife but release it in a big way - slaughter";"He and even the vice-governor - Gog and Magog."Police chief - "a crook, sell, deceive, and even have lunch with you."Summing up his judgment of the officials, he says: "It's all cheaters;there is a whole city: a crook in the swindler and a crook sitting chases.Christ-All.One only there is a decent man: Attorney;and he is, to tell the truth, the pig. "
a man like Sobakevich rude because of the properties of his nature.He never learned to express their views in a decent respectable form.Often, people are rude to enhance self-esteem.Sometimes rude born from the desire to earn the respect and recognition of his friends forces surrounding and sometimes imitation of rough behavior of its literary or film characters.Roughness may be due to the ugly stereotypes of thinking and living conditions in which it is also appropriate, as water, food and air.Sometimes the reason is simple - a recent quarrel with a friend, family problems, trouble at work or chronic illness.
The bear rudeness Sobakevich missing any shyness.When guests during dinner, he accuses the cook: "Will buy yonder rascal cook, I learned that the Frenchman, a cat, obderёt it, and submits to the table instead of dinner."Rudeness does not wish to be considered with any other people's feelings, either with special circumstances.Sobakevich uncouth, like a log, it is certain that the sun rises for him that life stops without his tutelage.
Sobakevich as natural snapper, feel their superiority over other landowners.What to say about simple peasants?From the feeling of superiority grows disregard for all living things.It is necessary to submit once rudeness, and the trap snaps superiority and subordination.Offensive rudeness continues, despite the fact that you are so trapped.Rudeness destroys the dignity of a person who is trapped in subordination.The wolf caught in a trap capable of Gnaw currently paw.So people driven "to handle", making desperate attempts to escape.Passions are so great that often ends in tragedy.In other words, when the deviation from the courtesy exceed reasonable limits, it means to be trouble.Excess rampant rudeness can not take place without hindrance.Treat rudeness as absurd wretched, unconscious beings themselves.You're not going to be angry with a parrot that shouts: "You fool."Rudeness another person touches us just as much as it is contained within us.Holy man touches crudeness, rudeness and insolence of others because of these qualities he does not have.Rudeness likes to show off, so it is reasonable to not pay attention to it.Quiet behavior, indulgence and humor can neutralize rudeness.
However, no men's rudeness can not be compared with the power of the coarse words of the woman.It is no secret that women are several times better than men know how to focus on feelings.Why women prefer to quarrel with a man better than a woman?Men rude word surface, there was little destructive energy."We have arrived, my mother," says the wife.- "What?" - "Numbers?" - "Fuck" - "How can you be so rude to talk with me about my mom?We're still a lady "- screaming wife."I do, ledey, long known" - the husband replies.Quite another matter, when his wife calmly, with an icy expression says to her husband: "You bastard."Sometimes only one female rough words to hit the spot formidable man.Her rudeness gets straight to the heart.In other words, women's rudeness is on the scale of civility panic.
Rudeness in the woman denies femininity and raises hostility, resentment and belligerence.Woman with manifest rudeness sees the world as a field of battle.The man with the manifestation of masculine qualities, respecting their masculine nature, not fall to the fight with a woman, so they can not cross the road.The lot of rudeness in a woman meet in the men's rude jerk.Two of a Kind.Like attracts like.Rudeness to rudeness gives rudeness square.This "fun" little family will know all the neighbors and the district.Local dogs will be with interest to adopt their experience, both artistically alien dogs bark.
If a friend was suddenly not a friend and not an enemy, and so ... So - it's not about another snapper.Courteous one think a hundred times to tell you of impending trouble, whether it was appropriate to warn you about something or someone.By following standards, one sees polite warning friendship through the prism of conventions, norms of behavior, etiquette.Overboard friendship remain "beautiful soul impulses of" sincerity, spontaneity and openness of relations.The focus friendship set courtesy.In rudeness is quite different disposition.If it took you for who you are, it will protect both samoyu itself.Make friends, so friends, that is, selflessly caring for others - it is an immutable principle of coarseness in friendship.
