There are people who panic afraid of anything choose.When in front of them there is more than one answer to any question, even very simple - for example, some cheese to buy, "Dutch" or "Russian", they start to get nervous and nostalgically recall the days of the Soviet deficit when the answer to the agonizing dilemmaIt was as follows: "Anyone who is in the store."You've probably seen these people in a supermarket: in the hands of two kinds of goods, on the face - Flour and read in the eyes of the question of how to make the right choice?And sorry for these people.Not so much because they can take the wrong decision, and as much due to the fact that no matter what they may have made a purchase, they still go out of the store in a bad mood.They are a long time will gnaw doubt that buying a "Dutch" (or "Russian") cheese, they miscalculated.
sometimes, and, more precisely, almost always, we have to choose between several options for more complex tasks than just buying one of the two types of cheese.And at stake are more serious things.For example, where to invest your money?Would the proposal to link their fate with one or another contender for the hand and heart?Whether you qualify for this job?Or the complete jobs involving all hands at work to decide what tasks to do and what to sacrifice?How to make the right choice in such a situation?
Let's analyze the mechanism of agonizing thought process when we need to stop something, but on the give up something.We are, first, gnawing anxiety that something on which we will focus, in the end we will disappoint.At the same time, pressing the greed (albeit unconsciously) because the second option is also welcome, we already believe "their", and now need to detach from the heart!We Mnemonic undecided and envy for those who make the right choice - not a problem.Meanwhile, our hesitation before making important decisions - is normal.The people who came to the store, quickly seized goods and rushed him to the checkout, in fact, the choice is not: either they firmly know what came over, or just obeyed momentary impulse "I want it."
There are some simple techniques that will help decide how to make the right choice.First - analytical.Let's accept the fact that we - not prophets (otherwise would always buy winning lottery ticket and would earn a fortune betting).But "buy a pig in a poke" is not worth it.Identify the criteria that are inherent in both variants.For example, we have such an option: two pairs of boots.Making the mind (you can on paper) plate, where two columns will be option A and option B, but in columns such criteria: the right size, nice color, fashionable style, combined with other parts of the existing wardrobe in stock price.Put a "tick" on options A and B. Which product gets more "ticks", and the take.
If you are dealing with a more complex matter than boots, try to find more information about the two options to calculate risks and make the right choice.Do not hesitate to ask for advice from friends, look for more information online.If you have to prioritize at work, think about it: What will cause complications in the future that you do not do this or that problem?Perhaps the failure of these cases makes it irrelevant that, for what you choose to take?
Another way of how to make the right choice is to follow your instincts.Not for nothing that the proverb says: "Sleep on it."Take a break, get something else.The decision will ripen in you itself.If you taciturn intuition, and in the morning you are staying in a stupor, try to talk with her.Toss a coin in the air, having thought that if the eagle - Option A, and if tails - B. This does not mean that you should rely on blind drop coins.Closely analyze your emotional state, no matter what side of the coin fell.Joy?Annoyance?Listen to that inner voice, and whatever you choose, you will be satisfied.
