agree, but still nice to praise myself!Although, of course, much nicer when you praise, to hear praise from the side.And if you, for example, do not know or do not appreciate, or ...
skills of self-presentation need almost anyone.You do not live in the desert and it is better if the others will know about your virtues.Of course, after a long acquaintance with you, maybe they notice them, these advantages.Or maybe not.And you are silent.You have been taught that modesty adorns.In fact - it is a myth.There's always ahead of those who are open about their merits.Modesty be profitable only in respect of its shortcomings.
However, if you are brought up in the spirit of "modesty adorns ...", you enter into a fight.First of all, to himself.Then with the environment, who are accustomed to your modesty.Think 100 times, if you need it?
But really, if you decide to - go ahead!
first conducted preliminary training, tighten the rear, s get intelligence.
1. Make a complete list of their advantages.The most-most complete.
2. Now make a list of their shortcomings.We think about how to turn them into advantages.It is possible, if not always, it is very, very often.We include these advantages in a global list.
3. stamped priority for each denomination you: what is best you own, put in the first place.Then rewrite the list, ranking his "coolness possession" of these virtues.
4. Make a table with two columns.Be in the list, only 20% of its merits.Write them down in the left column (or on the right, as you like).Next to each record, where, in what place and in what people can most favorably about it mention.
5. Find a place or a group, a collective.
6. attention.Now stop.Learn about the leaders and influential people in this group for more information.Any.Choose something that is important to you, then.
7. Now stop.Relax."Digest" the information.
If this group of people unknown to you, then:
1. First, just add to the statements of the leader (better informal) additional information, casually mentioning the high competence of the narrator.This will bring to you, at least sympathy.If you have nothing to add, just poddaknite and recognizes in all that you do not know.Do not criticize and do not argue.Sooner!
2. When you earn a good reputation, good reviews for each of you just add casually, "And I ..." and describe in simple terms their merits, which is appropriate to say in a given situation or developments in the region, which isspeech.It is difficult only at first, then becomes a habit.Very well, if someone on this auspicious moment to confirm your words (even if it never happened).
3. The universal rule - always get, something to praise a man who you described positively.
If this group of people you know, and they are aware of your virtues:
1. It is not necessary to show all what you are "cool."Even if you seem to afford one, upstarts and boasters nobody likes.Do not climb with his advice if you do not ask.Although, of course, of any rule there are exceptions.Proceed on the situation.
2. But if we have to ask for advice, give this advice, linking it with the facts of his biography, and, as if by accident, praise yourself.It is also difficult only at first, then becomes a habit.
main rule - first praise of others!Sincerely!Even if not for that.Just for the future.In our cruel world praise - sincere, not elevated to the rank of etiquette - is expensive!This will raise your self-esteem of others.A good long remember!Sometimes life.
only praising others, do not forget about yourself, a loved one (or your favorite).And you honestly earned a reputation as an open, sincere person, and their benefits can not miss!
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