Very often we hear from friends saying: I am the most unhappy, why I was not lucky, and so on.Many are so merged with the image of the offended people's lives that convince them is virtually impossible.Very often, these thoughts are the cause of this resentment or even anger at others.The man begins to feel that everyone is against him.As a result, he risks losing friends or being alone.
Give a definite answer to the question of why this or that person does not carry in his personal life, at work or in relationships with friends, you can not.However, to get out of this situation can only be yourself.
First we need to articulate all of their negative thoughts.It is advisable to write them on a piece of paper and read carefully.Then Reformulate them so that they were positive.
It is very important to learn to adjust to the best.No wonder even our grandmothers said that everything that is done, all the better.This simple adage perfectly helps to survive even the most difficult situations, which, unfortunately, often happens in life.
Answer for yourself just three questions:
- What you do not like in your life?
- How do you want to be?
- What prevents to achieve the desired?
get specific answers to your questions, you will be able to remove all the excess out of life, what makes you to be truly happy.Try to live as if you have the luck to come.And it does not make you wait long.
Stop asking the question: Why was not I lucky?In every life there are times when it does not work and give up.Most often, the trouble happens in one sphere of life.It can be work, personal or family life.Never argue with loved ones just because it is not going well at work.So you do not solve the problem and make it worse.
very rare global bad luck.The most common reason that "I'm not lucky" are unrealistic or unattainable goals plans.This leads to a decline in vitality, low self-esteem, and an unwillingness to do anything.If the situation can not be changed, then the only solution is a change of attitude towards it.Change is always for the better, even if there has been motivated you to unpleasant events.Belief in it - the key to success.
do an analysis of the situation or question "Why am I not lucky," you can find the answers.But this is not enough.We must be willing to fix things and, of course, know how to do it.
Try to slightly reduce the demands on themselves.It is not necessary to invent goals, which will be impossible to achieve.More often than not remain in memory only bad memories.Try to change that.Pay attention to all the pleasant things that happen in life.And do it every day.
As a result, you get used to the idea that life happens all the wonderful things you are lucky even more than some of your friends.
most important thing - to believe in yourself, in your dream, and you will see how the world around change for the better, and the wheel of fortune will begin to rotate in the desired direction.Ceasing to wonder "why I was not lucky," you finally start fulfilling life.
Do not forget that no matter how rosy nor was the world, troubles do occur.It is important not to despair or depression.For black stripe should always be white, and most likely, today's troubles only bode well for the future.Tune in to a positive.Come up with something to do that will distract from unpleasant thoughts.Go for a walk in the cinema club.Call old friends who may have not seen.Talk with nice people, friendly atmosphere will make you remember all the good things in your life.Thus, you get a charge of positive emotions, which will help find the right solution or a way out of this situation at the moment.
