Stretch dull days add up to weeks, months, years ... And you still did not leave some depressed state.Always something missing.Looking at successful people, somewhere in my heart wakes repulsive feeling - first begin to envy, anger, and then a complete dissatisfaction with their lives.What to do in such a situation, how to learn to enjoy life and whether it is possible to change something?
But it depends on you, because no one will ever be able to transform another person.Change itself can only be yourself, and it's very, very hard.But try to have that in the future not to drag out a bleak existence and not become gradually ever grumbling Biryuk.
But how to learn to enjoy life, if, for example, the nature of the melancholic character got?From habits oh so hard to get rid of, but here, consider it is necessary to completely reshape the nature!Well, when a person is optimistic, all his simple and clear - this man should be.Of course, no one should imitate, and can not afford it, but nevertheless, you will become every day better and better, while remaining himself.The ultimate goal is worth it, so we must make every effort, and over time it will become clear how to learn to enjoy life.
begin with, literally, tomorrow you will be treated to all the others, without exception, as we would like them to treat you.In keeping with this commandment, you make the first step toward his goal.Showing no response to the boorish antics of other people, you can stop incipient negative.
Think about that rude man could make hostile public attitudes towards it;more likely, he has no friends, no family.And learn to enjoy life in this case?Only good words and deeds can stop further hardening.Who knows, maybe in time you will be able to know this person completely, on the other hand, he will remove his evil shell that served him as a kind of protection.It is likely even, that you can make friends with them or become friends.
Gaining confidence - an important factor for a happy and joyful life.But helping someone, you are first and foremost become much better.In addition, you argue in your life, you have more and more friends and acquaintances who are increasingly willing sincere desire to communicate with you.
How to learn to be self-confident?A try cheapest, worthless, but is an effective means - just smile, and you will see, you will certainly respond with a smile.Positive attitude to people in conjunction with upbringing and education is able to do this from a human idol.But you do not achieve it, although it may well be the beginning of what will be a real jerk to achieve even higher goals.Being a positive person, you can achieve a lot in life, to succeed not only on the personal front, but also in the public arena.
rid himself of the habit of criticizing and underestimated, to reduce all thought very positive, justifying their actions entirely.
false delicacy generates insecurity.Do not assume that someone is better than you, remember once and for all - there are no ideal people, all have drawbacks.Make a mistake, you get the next lesson.The main thing - to all events taking place in your life to look on the positive side.After all, even when it seems that all is lost, as a result may be that the best is only just beginning.Love yourself and be happy!
