question of how to become a man, in some tribes today is solved quite simply.To do this, there are initiation, sometimes painful and dangerous to health and life.In civilized countries, the concept of "man" is formed as an image in the minds of society.However, depending on the culture of a particular country or nation, the answers to questions about how to be a man and mature man, different.The problem is even deeper because now the woman gradually begins to occupy the same position in society and the family, as a man.In Russia, many areas of the fairer sex are leading.
reason for this situation is that the male half of simply evading responsibility.We can say that what the men - and women are.If a father leaves his wife and offspring, placing responsibility for the maintenance and education of children per woman, the consequences are bound to be disastrous.What will happen to the boys, brought up without a father?Most often, the child models his behavior by watching adults.From infancy it will bring up a woman when he goes to kindergarten, then and there he would get only female education.The school is also not so much male teachers, with which you can take an example.As a result, the future man will begin to solve their problems feminine way.Most likely, it will become infantile.Who will show him how to be a man?
Part of the problem could be solved by the army.But by the time the guy will already be 18, while the main human development is carried out well before the legal age.In addition, most teenagers do not dream to be in the military service and frankly afraid of it.Before you become a man, a young man has to learn a few things.Primarily, responsibility.Reason and logic - the leading ways of thinking for the stronger sex.The man became hysterical - it is a tragedy for society.In addition to responsibility, we must also have the will power and the ability to go to the set goals.If the goal is not - then there is no life.
The difficulties tempered character.Anyone who is interested in how to be a man, must understand that it is not enough just to write down on paper the main principles of men's and honor them with a haughty air.True principles - those that are gained.A man should be able to keep his word.If the word is given, then the promise to be fulfilled.Otherwise, it is better not to promise.Calm and self-confidence - too masculine qualities.It is noted that calm man affects women more than a broken mountain furniture.Manifesting excess of emotion, the stronger sex likened raging Baba.Women, too, are able to break that falls under the arm, but they have less power.Some associates masculinity with success in career and money.In part this is correct, because the man - a miner.However, to reduce everything to the function should not be making money.
How to become a man in a world where education of boys - women's function?This work should take the adolescents themselves.Let this decision be the first man's conscious and responsible step.Every guy can set goals and problems and solve them.This success criterion should be the effectiveness of the solution of difficulties.The world of men - this rivalry and competition.This also applies to the material side, and spiritual.And to join this world need to prepare.Hasty decisions may take infantile young man who can not be responsible for themselves and their actions.A man should be able to answer for every step.Sometimes the stronger sex have to make unpopular decisions.They may seem harsh and even cruel.But over time, it is found that these actions were the good.Moreover, what should be a man, it is necessary to learn from the examples.
