Love ... Feeling manifested each with its force.But the symptoms are similar at all depending on: the heartbeat quickens at the sight of an object, can take one's breath, trembling fingers begin and throughout the body, sweat with excitement and even sudden temperature rise.All signs of the disease there.Ways of transmission: eye contact, fluids, charisma.Treatment is not required if the object of adoration is infected with the same virus.
sorry for a share of humor.But really the person experiences an inexplicable bliss, in a state of love.Of course, if the feeling is mutual.The world fades as soon as we see a loved one.And at that moment we understand that the more we do not need.
But it may also happen that the whole world is darkened, when the relationship suddenly cease.Before yesterday happy to bespamyatsva suddenly become defies logic question: "How to forget the man?"And no matter what the reason will.How to forget a loved one with whom so many ties?How to erase memories and images?How to forget his first such timid declaration of love?Days and nights spent together, the plans for the future, such a beautiful dream ... Everything suddenly collapses and it seems that does not make sense to live.Without him.Is it possible to forget a loved one?
disappointing answer: no.It will stay with you.The pain subsided only with time.Do not think about how to remember a loved one.The search for ways to not give results.Just try to move on.There is a movie in which a son who suffers from love and lost all hope, too tormented by the question, how to forget a person.He asks her father: "What do I do now?"Do you know what the answer's father gave his son?The only right: "Suffer!"
How to forget a person without pain, confusion of feelings, indescribable anguish and heartache?It's impossible.
It also happens that the suffering go for some face when a person begins to suffer, already experiencing the fun of their own suffering.This is a kind of masochism.The man closes on its own tearing agony of love, reveling in them without anyone noticing, poisoning the existence of not only his, but also their loved ones.As a result of the protracted neurosis causes others have physical ailments: headaches, fainting, ulcers, increase or decrease the pressure ... the list is endless long.No wonder they say that the cause of all diseases - the nerves.Adoption is not devoid of common sense.Many psychologists agree: love is quite possible to equate to serious diseases such as drug addiction and alcoholism.Even the ancient physicians treat love with anxiety.Avicenna, is the founder of Arabic medicine, stated: "Love is a disease. The symptoms: melancholy, her eyes dry, hollow; intermittent and recurring breathing hearing poetry about love, he was crying and grieving, there is no order in behavior; pulse messy and uneven asgrief at the crestfallen ... "
I can not tell you how to forget a loved one, because the truth can not forget loved.But muffle pain, back to life, it is still possible.And here you have to delve into the depths of the soul, to tell apart all on the shelves.After all, love can masquerade as other feelings.This sense of ownership (and unmet), and affected self-esteem, and fear of being alone, and even low self-esteem too.And only when you learn to recognize these feelings, separating them from true love, you make the first step on the road to recovery."Of the hundreds of petals will receive a drop of oil, hundreds of agony - a drop of wisdom."How true this saying!
Try to take a piece of paper and write on it the story of his love.And in the end, as a conclusion, append the phrase "it was."Burn this text, which is now a bridge between past and present.
soul-searching and self-examination you enjoyed enough.Now it's time to "lick" the wound.Do not linger too long in bed.Wake up actively.Let it be a morning jog or walk the dog.All of your choice and according to your abilities.Start attending gyms and swimming pool.Decorate a world, make others look at you with admiration and even envy.Visit a hairdresser, a manicure, go shopping.It is time to change the image.Stop long conversations with friends and relatives on the topic torments.Plunge headlong into the study, work.Plan your life so as to limit the intersection with former lover.It was the former.Affirm to yourself that status.Remember the famous words: "God's ways are inscrutable."Who knows, maybe just strong feelings today are only a prelude, a kind of rehearsal prior to a new, stronger and more sincere love?
Look at you from the other side.On the same one with which outsiders see you.Believe me, it's pathetic.Do not allow others to feel sorry for yourself because pity dries up very quickly and replaced by indifference.Miserable people can not be strong.Train yourself to think that experiencing today is a tragedy of a vaccine that would give immunity from failures and disappointments for many years, would not allow to suffer again the question of how to forget the man ...
And a few more words in conclusion ... ReferencesAs is known, it has an extraordinary force.See, when you have free time.Avoid day heartbreaking "Butterfly", written by order of publishers.Such tales and novelettes written based on sensitive public, undergoing or have just experienced a tragedy.Dismisses such literature at once.Do not let the cheap writers earn on your feelings and you raise your ranking.Although ... There is a beautiful work about feelings undivided, is still highly recommend to reading: the poem "Moscow - Petushki" (Yerofeyev).This work will really help you to look at yourself from the other side and make a reassessment of the situation.
