How nice to hear when an older child says: "The most joyful memories of my childhood are related to travel, in which I was with him he took his father. I liked it when he told me something to read, tell and something to teach." Certainly, not all and not always childhood was carefree and light. But it mainly depends not only on how high was the material welfare of the family, in which the growing child, how much of what methods of education used by parents.
In our ageInformation technology can be long and hard to talk about the means of education, which are used parents and teachers. But one thing is clear, if they do not affect the heart of the baby, the benefits of which will not. In recent decades, to such traditional methods as oral instruction, written word,aesthetic impact, add some more methods of education. It is, for example, the method of free education or, as it is called, - the method of permissiveness. As far as he is a good or bad - to say it makes no sense, because they are all effective in their own way and are good.The method of free education implies the absence of any framework for restricting the freedom of the child.Then the only way to become an avalanche of information that falls on the weak psyche of the baby.Whether the child will cope with such a burden?Will it be useful?
means of education to bring the desired benefits, they have to meet certain targets.To do this, it is important to reflect on this question: "Who do I want to see her child - selfish or weak-willed person to successfully overcome the difficulties?"Scarce, who remembers the joyful moments of childhood and guidance of his father or mother, can become successful and happy person.At the same time, guidance and training are powerless if the parents' words and deeds.Thus, the personal example - is the most effective and the most difficult to receive education of children.
to know what to strive for, always good to have a good example to follow.And that means education have been successful, it is important that parents have sincerely believed in what they teach their child.The Bible is remarkable lines: "The words that I am commanding you today shall be in your heart. You must inculcate them, talking about them when you are at home and when you walk on the road" (the book "Deuteronomy," 6: 6). These words concluded a very important principle that parents should remember that what you teach, must first be in your heart.
Formation of the person in the process of educating the children is continuous, and therefore, the more attention is paid tocommunicate with the child, the better.
very good when Mom and Dad are looking to spend with your child more time kids is a good feeling, and therefore they feel that they are important and that they are loved.
Also, if a childdo not forget to praise, it will contribute to the fact that he will develop a positive self-esteem.
Just do not go to extremes if naughty nabedokuril, it should be punished, but do it so that he understood - he is punished, because they love.
framework that set the parents, and the means of education should form a child's sense of security, and not limitation.
This is the main problem facing all the parents and teachers who take responsibility for the upbringing of children and, consequently, their future.
