Mobile phone firmly entered our life and it has changed much.Therefore, it is often a means of communication becomes a means of sorting out relationships (including family), and even a cause for scandal.
The problem is that the event called "phone call", men and women perceived quite differently.Men greatly exasperated female manner of ringing the whole day for very trivial reasons.Women - men's fashion not ringing all day and talk on the phone "rough" or remain silent.
What is the reason for this difference of perception?
fact that men call - action aimed at achieving a particular goal.Learn to speak, to decide something.And for the woman often serves the purpose of the process of communication, rather than the final result.
Woman largely asocial.She - the keeper of the family and the home.No such society it is not necessary, other women - potential rivals.World - a family, and the family - a world!But the urge to communicate with someone other than yourself, of course, there is.Therefore, the entire volume of normal human communication, it is trying to implement with only one person.His man.
men perceive the world very differently.The family - it's just part of the world.It is important, but not the only one.Men - earners mammoths.For this you need to associate with other men in temporary or permanent alliances.That's because in a man's life, in addition to the family, there are also such things as friends, colleagues and work.
In addition, the person can focus on their current task completely without residue.But for men it - its activities.Whether it's work, tinkering with the car in the garage or football with a beer and friends.The rest of the world at this time does not exist.
And for women the main "problem situation" in any situation - the family.
Therefore, women are capable of and ringing every fifteen minutes about the curtains or a broken nail.
Based on the foregoing, it can be concluded that women have a "multi-tasking thinking", "a la Caesar."Iea woman is able to simultaneously prepare a quarterly report, to think what to cook for dinner and to worry about, "He has an hour did not call me if anything had happened?".
From the perspective of women, is a logical chain:
whole world - it's a family!Curtains - part of the world.For him, the color of curtains - "nonsense."So, it is not important family and me.
Conclusions:
- He does not like me, then - I stouter.- Or is he someone there.- He - narcissistic egotist, is not interested in anyone but himself.
all quite logical.The idea that someone there is something important, but outside the family, not even considered.
man is also able to think of several things at once, but within the same theme.The Quarterly Report is adjacent to the insults to the chief and the idea of going on a fishing trip with Ivanov from another department.
From the perspective of the men:
She knows that I'm working (driving a car, watch football, drink beer).She knows that her calls with curtains distract me, I can make a mistake, an accident, I can not relax with friends.She does it to spite me.
conclusions can be anything.For example:
- Curtains can not choose their own.You fool!- Checks - jealous - hysterical!- She set a goal to cut the life of me!
idea that someone there is nothing but the family and the color of the curtains can be more important to deal with the client, not even come to mind.
Women!Before you call your man, think what he may be busy, it will not prevent you call it his?
Men!If you during the day stood out free time - call his woman.What is important is not the call, but a manifestation of attention!
Articles Source: hint4.me
