Poluproektivnaya technique based game of tic-tac-toe.
Note poluproektivnaya technique - this is not diagnostic, but rather an occasion to reflect, therefore, undesirable results, I advise you not to bother.Sometimes these simple techniques do not work.So treat this as the best in the game.
So, noughts and crosses.You must fill in a box here.
Cross need to put in those cells where your advantage over the partner (partner) is obvious, and toe where obviously his (her) advantage (because it will be for you - nil).Further, in the game may coincide with the icons or diagonal, or one of the sides of a square, and, depending on the fact that coincidence can be inferred.
example, it may be one of these options:
or the other.
If accumulated three consecutive cross - your influence is greater than that of a partner, if three toe - less.If you do not match any line, no one benefits not.On numbers of questions do not need to pay attention, they do not correspond to the numbers of homes resources or some other numerology, the questions are numbered just in order.
If a question is difficult to answer, perhaps, at this point there are some blind spot: the loss of the topics from the field of attention, or some illusion.If something is exactly the same with a partner and you choose who is still at least a little better, or simply put a cross (do yourself a pleasant).
proceed?
1. Friends.Place the cross, if you have more friends, they better love to have more, spend time with them you wonder how all this - the partner.Conversely, a toe, if friends or with a partner more than they were important to him (all counts: quantity, quality, mutual interest, the conclusion is, in general, and, of course, subjective, because it is a projective technique).
2. Work.Place the cross, if you 1) earn more than 2) have a more prestigious job or a prestigious position 2) greater love your job.And vice versa - toe, if all this is more pronounced in the partner.Matter all three dimensions, in the complex and in the middle.
3.Altruizm.Place the cross, if you are 1) greater love people 2) willing to help people 3) is pleased to make new connections.And vice versa.
4. Appearance.Place the cross, if you are 1) a more beautiful and well maintained 2) better dress 3) more charming.Needless to consider the relative performance for the genders.That is if your partner among men is much more attractive you are as a woman among women is zero, even if you are much more likely to wash your hair and clothes you have more than him.
5. This item is miss.
6. Love experience.Place the cross, if you are one) are more likely than it was discontinued a previous relationship on their own 2) your partners were more attractive and successful than his partner (partners) 3) relationships were generally more successful than him.And zero if the contrary.
7. Interests.Place the cross, if you 1) have more interests and hobbies or they are deeply 2) your horizons wider and better knowledge 3), you will know how to find myself and other activities.And zero if the contrary.
8. Family.Place the cross, if you are 1) a more friendly and loving family 2) you get more material and (or) emotional support from family 3), you have your own living space, and a partner there.Again, all three are significant sub on set or at a clear advantage.One obvious advantage is your one clear advantage subparagraph balanced partner to another, important approximate average.
9. HLS.Place the cross, if you are 1) a more mobile and lead an active lifestyle 2) more than fond of physical perfection itself 3) more energetic person, basically.And vice versa.
Now fill the box number 5 in the middle.
Put a cross if your partner (partner) is more interested in analyzing the relationship at the moment.For example, it would be interesting to see the result of this test or any other test, the objectivity of which he was sure would.That is, you must select (subjectively, of course) for any one of you is more important to understand the current situation in your pair.If you - put in the center of zero, if the partner - the cross.
If matched three crosses (or two times three) - you have more of an impact in your couple and likely relevance to your partner is higher than it is for you, if three toe - on the contrary.If not matched anything special benefits no one.
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