modern rhythm of life and especially human behavior became dramatically different from what people are used to seeing for a long time.On the territory of the former Soviet Union such a difference is felt particularly sharply.Nowadays, you can find rare gallantry on the part of men.It turned out there is the quality of fashion or is it still relevant?
Why show chivalry?
First of all, it should be said that the meaning of this concept.Chivalry originates from the Middle Ages, when it came to the chivalric code of honor.This word has come down to us in French means "exquisite politeness."So whether you can often find a manifestation of this quality?
While chivalry is often indicative of a good education, some men in modern society are such an attitude to the opposite sex is not on the principles of honor.For many of the stronger sex act courteously - is doing anything to impress, seduce a woman.
However, there are those who understand that to behave in society of the fairer sex courteously - is a sign of self-respect, good manners and more.Unfortunately, what is less common is the quality, developed with the right message, the more likely it is interpreted as flirting and inappropriate attention.How looks chivalry?
What expresses this quality
In a society where a woman often tends to become more independent, gallant man - this is not always the one she expects to see.This is a wonderful quality that goes with time in the life of society is characterized by simple actions.For example, when a woman goes down the stairs, she should shake hands.Chivalry is manifested in the fact that the man helps his companion put on a coat, skip forward, opening the door for her, and pulls up a chair when she was going to sit down.
Such simple steps that have been the norm for educated society today can be interpreted not as a courtesy, but as the attentions of the opposite sex.That is why such behavior is typical of young people who care for the girl.So, the manifestation of gallantry against the married ladies can not always be correctly seen other people.
To act courteously - is not meant to be only polite to use.Sometimes this quality manifests itself in relation to the woman even before there is a need to take any action.For example, when meeting a gallant man should show their respect by saying the phrase "I'm glad to meet you" or "Nice to meet you."
chivalry is also a manifestation of the ability to properly conduct a conversation.In a society gentleman woman may feel uncomfortable, so you should avoid those totally unfamiliar to her.With this may be difficult, because most of the "male" are not interested in talking to representatives of the weaker sex.However, driving at ease, the man remains a gallant, if starts a conversation that is familiar to his companion.
The family
Though gallantry - a quality that is often used by man to achieve certain objectives, such as to impress a woman and win her trust, it should be used not only in certain situations, for the task.Family psychologists in one voice say that good manners show genuine respect for the spouse to her beloved.People who are married for a long time, do not need anything to impress each other, let alone win.But the manifestation of gallantry will make relations between the spouses stronger.
reason that chivalry has become not so frequent, was not only bad manners of men and women striving to become more independent.Many of the fairer sex was regarded appropriate to signs of attention by the Cavaliers as evidence of leniency shown by the weak and helpless individuals.
Influence gallant attitude
manifestation of noble qualities a positive effect on people.If a man comes gallantly - this gives him the opportunity to feel like a real defense and a strong personality.Woman expression with respect to this quality makes it even more feminine and attractive.The gallant man - is the one who wants to meet every woman.But even if the quality is evidenced by a friend or a complete stranger, this attitude still resembles a lady of her uniqueness and warms the soul.
Whatever the mind of modern man, some men still will continue to show chivalry.Such an attitude towards women inherent in representatives of the stronger sex in the genes.Nothing can replace a man from the subconscious the idea that he is a strong personality, and always take the brunt.
