The nature of man is a set of moral categories and the associated rules and norms of behavior.One of the main, core personality traits are self-respect and self-esteem.They determine how a person is self-sufficient and independent, subject to any influence from the outside, including the bad, can resist his own negative impulses and instincts.Inner freedom, spiritual growth is also associated with this concept.
Self-esteem - a sense of identity and self-worth, subject to certain ethical behavior based on self-assessment.On the one hand, this moral category refers to the category of universal and individual.On the other, at different times and for different social groups had their own notions of honor and personal dignity.And that was considered humiliating and unacceptable for a time, in the other, on the contrary, it was seen as a necessary and even mandatory norm.
Self-esteem is not innate.One has to shape it and cultivate, often lifelong.It is associated with such personality traits as self-confidence.We can not be universal, equally good in absolutely all spheres of activity and endowed with all possible talent immediately.As a rule, the nature of this plan applies an individual approach, so from someone turns an excellent mathematician, someone great singing or writing poetry, successfully treats patients or creates a new sverhumnuyu technique.And it would be foolish of the individual and the people around him to require, for example, good, competent accountant wrote novels at Leo Tolstoy.Everyone should learn to accept himself as he is created by nature, a respect for the abilities, which he has to which it is prone.This approach will be the first link in a chain of self-education, a platform on which to build a sense of self-esteem.
If we consider that we all come from childhood and that is where there is a bookmark all the essential qualities of the human person, the adult should be particularly careful and respectful to the child, to combine a reasonable, objective rigor with genuine goodwill and interest of his spiritual and mental demands and needs.For example, if a girl is having fun dancing, plastic and musical, it can be written in a dance studio or a section of rhythmic gymnastics, and if the boy is a clear penchant for the art, the mathematical circle, educational games - just what clearly would benefit.Ieif there is any capacity, is clearly seen in the little man to find support, will be cultivated and encouraged, then in adult life, this person will be able to hold on firmly and confidently, and his self-esteem will be based on a very real soil.After all, success in one sphere of life entails faith in themselves and in other cases and areas.
Encourage the child must be reasonable.Apart from moral support, it is necessary to cultivate self-control, self-discipline, resistance weaknesses.This is also one of the most important moments when formed dignity.
psychologists have long proven that a person with low self-esteem, self-doubt, and has a low coefficient of self-esteem.For their recovery, there are many effective methods, but the most important thing at the beginning - that people realize that you can no longer live like this, you must change yourself, your lifestyle and behavior.Understanding this fact as an urgent need - the first push on the way correcting its flawed 'I'.A second step - programming yourself for success.Then will increase self-esteem and self-esteem.A person mature in this respect, from himself and from others will demand proper behavior, will not allow itself unseemly behavior, appearance and inner state will try to meet the high ideals and standards.
